Members TU BE Posted November 7, 2007 Author Members Share Posted November 7, 2007 Big +1Yes, when I get home from work this afternoon, I will go through and delete all my posts of that nature. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Syn Harvest Posted November 7, 2007 Members Share Posted November 7, 2007 Talked to the soon to be ex this morn. It seems her "lawyer" has told her if she joins the military she has virtually NO chance of getting the kids. So....she has decided to stick with the original plan of joint custody and an "uncontested" divorce. Imagine that. :poke: awesome dude Congrats glad to hear the kids are staying close to you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members TU BE Posted November 7, 2007 Author Members Share Posted November 7, 2007 awesome dude Congrats glad to hear the kids are staying close to you.For now. She claims that she wants to find another job and that her MBA isn't much good in SA (which is a load of crap). She wants to move eventually, but the decree WILL contain a "restrictive domicile" clause for sure. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Neilrocks25 Posted November 7, 2007 Members Share Posted November 7, 2007 Talked to the soon to be ex this morn. It seems her "lawyer" has told her if she joins the military she has virtually NO chance of getting the kids. So....she has decided to stick with the original plan of joint custody and an "uncontested" divorce. Imagine that. :poke: in the words of Homer J Simpson WOO HOO Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members telephant Posted November 7, 2007 Members Share Posted November 7, 2007 Talked to the soon to be ex this morn. It seems her "lawyer" has told her if she joins the military she has virtually NO chance of getting the kids. So....she has decided to stick with the original plan of joint custody and an "uncontested" divorce. Imagine that. :poke: Well thats some good news!!! I was thinking that would probably be the deal. At the same time, what kind of woman with two small younguns wants to join the damn navy? I mean, I appreciate wanting to serve your country but... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members kkyle Posted November 7, 2007 Members Share Posted November 7, 2007 Talked to the soon to be ex this morn. It seems her "lawyer" has told her if she joins the military she has virtually NO chance of getting the kids. So....she has decided to stick with the original plan of joint custody and an "uncontested" divorce. Imagine that. :poke: At least she loves the kids enough to be around. It really can screw a kid up not having a mom. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members TU BE Posted November 7, 2007 Author Members Share Posted November 7, 2007 Well thats some good news!!! I was thinking that would probably be the deal. At the same time, what kind of woman with two small younguns wants to join the damn navy? I mean, I appreciate wanting to serve your country but... I'm convinced she doesn't have the ability to think things through thoroughly before making decisions. It was a selfish thing to consider in the first place. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ranalli Posted November 7, 2007 Members Share Posted November 7, 2007 Something else you'll want to do: stop speaking publicly (read: posting on the HCAF) about your sexual conquests. If the divorce is gonna get ugly like you anticipate, rest assured that anything you say can and will be used against you.+10000Despite all this tramp has put you through I'm surprised you haven't gotten a lawyer a long time ago.I really hope things work out....this is not a good situation for anyone but her. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members '63-Strat Posted November 7, 2007 Members Share Posted November 7, 2007 Yes, when I get home from work this afternoon, I will go through and delete all my posts of that nature. I think that's a smart move man. Joining the airforce right now seems kind of out there to me especially when she has kids, so I don't think its a stretch to think she'd scour the internet for dirt on you, honestly. Glad to hear her plans are dead in the water for now though Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ranalli Posted November 7, 2007 Members Share Posted November 7, 2007 Talked to the soon to be ex this morn. It seems her "lawyer" has told her if she joins the military she has virtually NO chance of getting the kids. So....she has decided to stick with the original plan of joint custody and an "uncontested" divorce. Imagine that. :poke: Very good!!! Glad to hear!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members gdwill2u Posted November 7, 2007 Members Share Posted November 7, 2007 Really sorry to hear about this TUBE, best of luck. Keep close to your friends and try to avoid all the crazy advice you'll be getting from well meaning folks. Do what's best for your kids and you'll find a way.God bless you and your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members TU BE Posted November 7, 2007 Author Members Share Posted November 7, 2007 +10000 Despite all this tramp has put you through I'm surprised you haven't gotten a lawyer a long time ago. I really hope things work out....this is not a good situation for anyone but her. Dude, I've HAD a lawyer. I filed for the big D when I still lived in Forth Worth. All we were waiting on was for her to sign the papers saying it is gonna be an "uncontested" divorce, which she has informed me she has done now (8 months later:rolleyes:). So now we can get this marriage over with and get on with our lives. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members telephant Posted November 7, 2007 Members Share Posted November 7, 2007 I'm convinced she doesn't have the ability to think things through thoroughly before making decisions. It was a selfish thing to consider in the first place.Telephant's obligatory "BITCHES ARE FUCING CRAZY!!!" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members LowPhreak Posted November 7, 2007 Members Share Posted November 7, 2007 But seriously, fathers can win significant custody rights. ...We're living in the age of child custody reform, believe it or not:freak:Yep, dads can get significant custody rights alright. In less than 10% of cases does Dad get full custody, but then it depends on what you call "significant". Look up the stats, although it varies from state to state.Yes, it IS possible to find a lawyer who isn't trying to take everything of value you have left (and then some) to fight your case. Good luck with that. Even IF you do find one, the end result will be determined by the judge, no matter what $$ you spend or who the lawyer is. The simple but harsh fact is that the vast, vast majority of fam. court judges are leaning towards the mother's side, if not outright hostile to men in general before you even get in the starting line. I have seen guys walk in with the "best" divorce lawyer in a 100 mile radius, spending 10's of thousands of $$, only to get rammed by the judge. All they're looking for is one tiny excuse to hang their hat on and that's all they need. I've seen judges ignore mothers who violated visitation orders 15-20 times in a row that were well documented, and those were not unusual or rare cases. Yes, a lawyer who happens to give a {censored} can help, but don't expect one to save the day. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members K.platyops Posted November 7, 2007 Members Share Posted November 7, 2007 If you're in Texas, be aware that it's not a 'no-fault' divorce state (there are only 15 so far), so you have to be careful of stuff that can be used against you.I'm glad about the news. But I'd still go and see your lawyer about this. It won't hurt to keep on top of things. And don't tell your wife you saw the lawyer (that goes without saying). Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Elric Posted November 7, 2007 Members Share Posted November 7, 2007 +10000 Despite all this tramp has put you through I'm surprised you haven't gotten a lawyer a long time ago. He doesn't NEED a lawyer, he has US. Group hug! :love: But seriously, I hope everything works out. I'd be broken if my kids were taken away! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members RelicJunky Posted November 7, 2007 Members Share Posted November 7, 2007 I think if you explain to the Air Force recruiter all of the facts of what it appears she failed to disclose while filling out her enlistment contract she will not be allowed to enlist. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members LowPhreak Posted November 7, 2007 Members Share Posted November 7, 2007 I think if you explain to the Air Force recruiter all of the facts of what it appears she failed to disclose while filling out her enlistment contract she will not be allowed to enlist.The AF doesn't care about that right now, they're desperate for bodies. Whatever is not exactly great about her they can get waived. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members RelicJunky Posted November 7, 2007 Members Share Posted November 7, 2007 Call the JAG office, they are not that desperate. There are no waivers for custody. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Kerouac Posted November 7, 2007 Members Share Posted November 7, 2007 Good luck, TU BE. It seems that every time I think maybe marriage is a possibility I see some bitch come along and {censored}i up with her being crazy and greedy. I was raised by my mother after she left my father, and only as I got older did I realize that it really WAS her fault, and she was being selfish and tried to pin everything on our father. He and I lost 5 years because I believed everything my mum said and then some.Fight for your kids, and if you can afford it, throw down a legal {censored}ing gauntlet. It sounds terrible, but if she wants you broken and bloody, might as well prepare her for her new career... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Killzone Posted November 7, 2007 Members Share Posted November 7, 2007 Me being in the army, you may be able to get the kids in court. It depends on if she is going to be Deployable or non deployable, meaning she will leave to go overseas eventually (iraq, afganistan). She may have also fraudently enlisted too, all she had to do was say you have the kids full time when she signed up and BAM! She's in. My ex-wife had to lie and say i wasnt in the army and i had the kids for her to get in. You should do more research. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members BadRonald Posted November 7, 2007 Members Share Posted November 7, 2007 Sorry for the situation bro. Hope everything works out for the kids, and you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Cibyl Posted November 7, 2007 Members Share Posted November 7, 2007 Actually, with her being active duty Air Force, you are in a slightly better position to get majority of the custody. Research some, because I think it could work in your favor. I think. Exactly. TU BE - you need to talk to a lawyer as soon you know she's actually going to go through with this. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members RelicJunky Posted November 7, 2007 Members Share Posted November 7, 2007 Exactly. TU BE - you need to talk to a lawyer as soon you know she's actually going to go through with this.Without a doubt, seriously contact the Air Force Judge Advocate (lawyer office) right there at Lackland. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members bennintexas Posted November 7, 2007 Members Share Posted November 7, 2007 It depends if he was waring frilly underwear and he should be telling it to peoples face, not some forum thats available to a whole bunch of disgruntled teenager like myself. P.s do i get a spork? lol, most of us arent {censored}ing teenagers you {censored}ing idiot. does mommy cut your pb and j sandwiches into triangles or rectangles? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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