Members TU BE Posted November 7, 2007 Members Share Posted November 7, 2007 So the soon to be ex-wife calls me up and seems one of her friends has convinced her to join the Air Force. That's all good that she wants to better herself, but here's where the problem arrives. See, we were originally gonna do a joint custody of my kids and both live here in SA. But now, if she joins they could send her ANYWHERE and she says SHE wants custody which would basically make me have to follow her wherever she has to go for Uncle Sam if I want to see my kids. This totally pisses me off because I have been the best parent I can be considering the circumstances and she has put little effort into being one for the past 6 months. Now, with a "contested" divorce here in Texas, she could win custody of our kids and I'd be a {censored}ing nomad if I want to be part of their lives. This was NOT the original plan for the divorce and she has gone and thrown a {censored}ing monkey wrench in the godamn spokes. I can't be without my kids. I won't do it. I WILL NOT be a weekend dad (or worse yet a once or twice a year dad). I'm so {censored}ing pissed right now I don't know whether to punch something or just breakdown and have a good cry. {censored}!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members code_blue Posted November 7, 2007 Members Share Posted November 7, 2007 Not fair dude. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members kamzan18 Posted November 7, 2007 Members Share Posted November 7, 2007 man what a {censored}ing bitch. Doesn't she see the position you're in? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Bob Savage Posted November 7, 2007 Members Share Posted November 7, 2007 Man, I'm really sorry to hear this dude. I hope everything works out well for the kids sake first and of course, yours too. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members TU BE Posted November 7, 2007 Author Members Share Posted November 7, 2007 man what a {censored}ing bitch. Doesn't she see the position you're in? Like she {censored}ing cares. I can't help but think that ruining my life would give her great satisfaction as she improves hers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Sins_&_Shadows Posted November 7, 2007 Members Share Posted November 7, 2007 mojo sent man. thats so terrible. give it a little bit of time. maybe she'll realize what kind of position that this is putting you and the kids into. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members blargh Posted November 7, 2007 Members Share Posted November 7, 2007 Sorry to hear that. Seems like every divorce I hear about is a horror story Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Rayneman Posted November 7, 2007 Members Share Posted November 7, 2007 Be vigilant. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members tsunamijesus Posted November 7, 2007 Members Share Posted November 7, 2007 that cant be legal. find a judge with an ounce of scruples and family values and im sure he'll rule something along the lines of "{censored} you bitch stay put" i cant imagine anything else being possible. best wishes man, i respect that youre doing everything you can for your kids. the fact that you would travel with them, totally changing your life, really shows a lot of character. whats your mojopal address? ive gotta toss you some for this Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members insurrection Posted November 7, 2007 Members Share Posted November 7, 2007 I call shenanigans... call a lawyer or something... they will decide what is best for the child based off of income, available time to spend with the child.. etc. and it seems as though a citizen would have more time to spend with the child than an active duty individual. It if were me.... this'd mean war. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Ron Burgandy Posted November 7, 2007 Members Share Posted November 7, 2007 Sorry man, that is really awful to hear. I've seen so many posts talking about how proud you are of your kids and that would be {censored}ing awful of her to do that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members DracoAran Posted November 7, 2007 Members Share Posted November 7, 2007 (edited) DELETE Edited August 30, 2023 by DracoAran Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members loiking Posted November 7, 2007 Members Share Posted November 7, 2007 congrats Homer tell it to some real people P.s i hope she enjoys your brothers cock Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Ron Burgandy Posted November 7, 2007 Members Share Posted November 7, 2007 congrats Homer tell it to some real people P.s i hope she enjoys your brothers cock I really doubt you'd say that to TU BE's face. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members insurrection Posted November 7, 2007 Members Share Posted November 7, 2007 Actually, with her being active duty Air Force, you are in a slightly better position to get majority of the custody. Research some, because I think it could work in your favor. I think. Yes. Damn you TOOB, if you screw this up I'm going to personally come over there and smack you around. You've got the leverage, obviously. If you've got any lawyer friends, get off HC and get them out of bed now. You can't get started soon enough is my point. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members TheAmazingBlob Posted November 7, 2007 Members Share Posted November 7, 2007 She actually expects your kids to follow her around to wherever while she's in the Air Force? I'm going to go ahead and assume that your kids would not be happy about that either; try calling a lawyer to see if you have a case. congrats Homer tell it to some real people P.s i hope she enjoys your brothers cock {censored} the hell off. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members code_blue Posted November 7, 2007 Members Share Posted November 7, 2007 Sorry to hear that. Seems like every divorce I hear about is a horror story Divorce + kids = not good And another thing, how can the courts go for this BS? Just because she is in the military doesn't mean all previous rules are void....wtf... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members trey85stang Posted November 7, 2007 Members Share Posted November 7, 2007 talk to your lawyer, generally if there is a custody battle ongoing.. she wont be able to leave the state of texas with the kids or it would be kidnapping. Also, its a fat chance she will be allowed to join the AF with two dependants. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members insurrection Posted November 7, 2007 Members Share Posted November 7, 2007 congrats Homer tell it to some real people P.s i hope she enjoys your brothers cock God damn dude did you fail L.D. class or what? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members loiking Posted November 7, 2007 Members Share Posted November 7, 2007 It depends if he was waring frilly underwear and he should be telling it to peoples face, not some forum thats available to a whole bunch of disgruntled teenager like myself. P.s do i get a spork? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members dr_love6977 Posted November 7, 2007 Members Share Posted November 7, 2007 It depends if he was waring frilly underwear and he should be telling it to peoples face, not some forum thats available to a whole bunch of disgruntled teenager like myself. P.s do i get a spork? Where's a mod when you need one? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members loiking Posted November 7, 2007 Members Share Posted November 7, 2007 Whats L.D class Letter Development? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Boris the Blade Posted November 7, 2007 Members Share Posted November 7, 2007 the woman always wins Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members trey85stang Posted November 7, 2007 Members Share Posted November 7, 2007 It depends if he was waring frilly underwear and he should be telling it to peoples face, not some forum thats available to a whole bunch of disgruntled teenager like myself. P.s do i get a spork? if you're going to attempt an insult at least learn to spell. P.s. DIAF Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members TU BE Posted November 7, 2007 Author Members Share Posted November 7, 2007 congrats Homer tell it to some real people P.s i hope she enjoys your brothers cock {censored} you asswipe. I'd love to meet you someday. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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