kkyle

Talked to the soon to be ex this morn. It seems her "lawyer" has told her if she joins the military she has virtually NO chance of getting the kids. So....she has decided to stick with the original plan of joint custody and an "uncontested" divorce. Imagine that. :poke: At least she loves the kids enough to be around. It really can screw a kid up not having a mom.

See, she thinks she IS doing what's best for the kids. That's the {censored}ed up part. She's like, "Benefits, health care" etc. And YES, she is VERY selfish. I honestly don't think she can win this custody battle. I have record of everytime she's actually visited the kids and it doesn't look too good. PLUS, I have written record of everytime she's "said" she was going to visit them ONLY to disappoint them by either not showing up at all or calling to say she can't make it. You not only need legal advice, you need the BEST you can find. A good lawyer can totally dominate.