Members hvymtl939 Posted May 28, 2012 Members Share Posted May 28, 2012 My girlfriend and I are going through just about the worst situation I've ever been in right now. Any mojo you guys could send would be appreciated. On friday, Ari got at call from her parents around 3 pm that her younger sister had gone on a jog, and hadn't been heard from since. Ari went over to join them. About an hour later, people started sharing her photo on facebook to get the word out, so myself, my roommate, and Ari's best friend drove over to help with the search. When I got there, Ari was hysterical, as they had found her glasses on the side of the road where she had been jogging. About an hour after that, Ari's dad and a sheriff came to the house and called the family inside. Ari came out and gave me the most devasting news I've ever had to take. Her sister had been hit with a car, and killed while jogging. The driver who is in custody, moved her body to a field and went home like nothing had happened. Now her funeral is set for wednesday. She just graduated from highschool last sunday. I just saw her at her graduation party saturday. Ari had been home the night before for family pictures and her brother's birthday dinner. I just don't know what to do or say to help her through this. What does one do in this situation? What can one do? Ari has been at her family's house since Friday, and I've been over every day to be with them. She was best friends with her sister, and this is just destroying her. I just don't know what to do. Thanks for letting me share this. I just have kinda needed to vent all of this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Warhorse Posted May 28, 2012 Members Share Posted May 28, 2012 Very sorry to hear that, best wishes to you and yours. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Repner Posted May 28, 2012 Members Share Posted May 28, 2012 That's awful. There are some serious {censored}heads out there. I hope he gets what's coming to him. Serious mojo sent to Ari and her family Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members fretless Posted May 28, 2012 Members Share Posted May 28, 2012 yeah that is so sad . Tons of mojo... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members thenakedarab Posted May 28, 2012 Members Share Posted May 28, 2012 What a horrible thing to do. How did the guy know she was dead when he dragged her off. {censored}ing selfish people. My best wishes go out to your girls family man. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Ovid9 Posted May 28, 2012 Members Share Posted May 28, 2012 Mojo and prayers to you and your GF's family! Had a very similar thing happen to a good friend in HS (except at least in that instance the driver wasn't a soulless bastard and called the cops himself.) What a horrible thing to have happen. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Reauchambeau Posted May 28, 2012 Members Share Posted May 28, 2012 mojo sent, condolences to the family Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members chad_sux Posted May 28, 2012 Members Share Posted May 28, 2012 Gut wrenching dude. The only thing you can do is be there for her and her family like you have been. Nothing you can do to bring her back Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members boxcarmonument Posted May 28, 2012 Members Share Posted May 28, 2012 Major mojo sent. All you can do is be there for her and her family and support them emotionally any way you can. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Miter Gauge Posted May 28, 2012 Members Share Posted May 28, 2012 I wish I knew what to say... I have no words at all to comfort you but if it helps at all I send my prayers and whatever mojo is, I send that as well. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Hardvalve Posted May 29, 2012 Members Share Posted May 29, 2012 Words cannot express. Prayers and mojo sent. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members rushtallica Posted May 29, 2012 Members Share Posted May 29, 2012 Damn. I'm horribly sorry for your and your girlfriend's and her family's loss. Just being there for her right now is a blessing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Dewysoss Posted May 29, 2012 Members Share Posted May 29, 2012 Wow, I saw that you guys were looking for her the other day... mojo Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ManofWar55 Posted May 29, 2012 Members Share Posted May 29, 2012 I'm so sorry man. Sending as much mojo as I can send! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Pincookie1 Posted May 29, 2012 Members Share Posted May 29, 2012 That is awful. Mojo sent. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members PlayboyChris Posted May 29, 2012 Members Share Posted May 29, 2012 I just don't know what to do or say to help her through this. What does one do in this situation? What can one do? Perhaps start by removing the huge ass pic from your avatar? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Zeppelin Rules Posted May 29, 2012 Members Share Posted May 29, 2012 The loss of a loved one is bad enough, but what that {censored}head did after the fact is just unbelievable. He was probably drunk too. I hope your state has some serious drunk driving laws. Mojo sent. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members "sasquatch" Posted May 29, 2012 Members Share Posted May 29, 2012 Major prayers and mojo sent to your girlfriends family and sister. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members JR13 Posted May 29, 2012 Members Share Posted May 29, 2012 mojo Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ***1776*** Posted May 29, 2012 Members Share Posted May 29, 2012 Wow thats sad sad news Damnit i hate to hear stuff like this, mojo/prayers to the family and loved ones Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members thefyn Posted May 29, 2012 Members Share Posted May 29, 2012 Ah man that is awful. Mojo sent man... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members MatchFive Posted May 29, 2012 Members Share Posted May 29, 2012 That's horrible.. I Can't believe the jackass just moved her and left.. I think the best thing you can do is just be there for her.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members isvoid Posted May 29, 2012 Members Share Posted May 29, 2012 Horrible news. God I hope she didn't suffer. My heart goes out to you and her family. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Lord ToneKing Posted May 29, 2012 Members Share Posted May 29, 2012 this will take years of healing. I will tell you from experience that you will get frustrated at some point, but ALWAYS keep in mind of what happened and show grace to her in however she finds a way to cope with this tragedy That is just a horrible story. My heart goes out to you, her and her family I will keep all of you in my prayers Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members NoRomoFan Posted May 29, 2012 Members Share Posted May 29, 2012 Prayers and mojo sent. Words cannot express your girlfriend's loss. Be a comforting shoulder for her to lean on. She will need it. Psalm 34:18The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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