Members chittypantz Posted August 22, 2006 Members Share Posted August 22, 2006 Good luck, man. I'm sure it's tough, but keep moving forward and you'll get through it. It's her loss, and I'm sure she'll grow to regret it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members bob the dentist Posted August 22, 2006 Members Share Posted August 22, 2006 Originally posted by murdock you look like the dude from spiderman Man, that's COLD...he does kinda look like him, but posting this ugly-ass pic of Dafoe is just uncalled for. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Doctor Posted August 22, 2006 Members Share Posted August 22, 2006 dang man. so does this mean your crazy parties are over ? still wish i would have went to that club jenna one..... that really stinks that your girl is abandoning you, good luck and be strong, you already don't have any problems getting chicks so at least look on that bright side. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Strapping_Young_Lad Posted August 22, 2006 Members Share Posted August 22, 2006 your all stupid. quit feeling sorry for this peice of {censored} Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Reaxis Posted August 22, 2006 Members Share Posted August 22, 2006 Originally posted by Strapping_Young_Lad your all stupid. quit feeling sorry for this peice of {censored} woah... well, feel better soon!! mojo sent.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members sekler Posted August 22, 2006 Members Share Posted August 22, 2006 mojo sent bro !women are evil whores sometimes..with that amount of time you've spent with her...it'll take a lil while before everything heals up a bit..gotta stay strong Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Dave Owens Posted August 22, 2006 Members Share Posted August 22, 2006 Originally posted by Chad-Chicago No problem meeting the girlies. Just need to get my head right. Dunno how or how long its gonna take. That bitch really {censored}ed me up! been thru it...trust me..i "though" i had lost all of it...well (much to my suprise)..i didnt.you need to find something to do and put your self into it..thats how it worked for me..the more i do the better i feel.. and every positive move i work for..makes me stronger...dont feel sorry for your self or her..its her choice... d- Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members rushtallica Posted August 22, 2006 Members Share Posted August 22, 2006 Originally posted by Pepi Time is your only medication. It will hurt for awhile but later you will see it wasn't meant to be. Sorry, I know what your going through My sentiments exactly. My wife was finally moved out just last Thursday, and I'm too busy starting school today and with work to try and hook up with someone else, but I can already tell time is what's gonna' help. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Sinasl1 Posted August 22, 2006 Members Share Posted August 22, 2006 There's a really good book called "Rebuilding- when your relationship ends" by Dr. Bruce Fisher. It helped me lots when I went through a devastating split 1 year ago. It's amazing how he had all my feelings pegged in the book, spot on. I know exactly what you're going through with the dating thing- it's almost like you feel like you HAVE to do it, as if you're getting back up on a horse after getting thrown. Your fears about a rebound relationship are totally justified. You really need to heal up before getting in another one- there's lots in the book about that. I went through te same stuff. Dated HARD for the 1st few months, but I chilled out eventually, got real busy working on music, and forgot about dating for awhile. I'm only just getting back into it now, and I'm in a way better place to be doing it.. but it's STILL a mind{censored} a year later!! Damaged goods, yup.. but.. I'm way smarter now then I was back then, and way more confident that I'm a great guy. Also, being really angry is a GOOD thing- helps you get over it faster. Just don't do anything destructive with the anger.. but feeling it and acknowledging it is real important. Best thing- spend lots of time with your guy friends. Hang out with good dudes and do lots of stuff with them you couldn't do when you were with her. Go see concerts, go to sporting events, or crazy weekend trips to Vegas, whatever- just get in touch with that side of yourself you maybe gave up a little (or a lot) investing time and effort into her. Put lots of effort into work, the guitar, whatever- and ENJOY living alone and doing whatever the hell you want to! It's hard to see now, and really man, it might take quite awhile- like months and months.. but you're gonna start feeling better, and feeling bad less and less. Life's a gift, and it's short- get out and live. BTW- a funny thing may happen- just when you are feeling way better and standing on your own two feet. I bet she tries to get you back. Just a hunch. And you'll probably say "hell, no." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members DeathMonkey Posted August 22, 2006 Members Share Posted August 22, 2006 Originally posted by Strapping_Young_Lad your all stupid. quit feeling sorry for this peice of {censored} Thanks for posting! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members potaetoes Posted August 22, 2006 Members Share Posted August 22, 2006 this thread is useless without pictures of all the chicks you're going to nail. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members sah5150 Posted August 22, 2006 Members Share Posted August 22, 2006 Man, sorry to hear that! I have to say I'm totally surprised based on your discussion here when you guys were happy. {censored}... maybe nothing does last... Scary notion for the married... Steve Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Chad-Chicago Posted August 22, 2006 Author Members Share Posted August 22, 2006 Originally posted by potaetoes this thread is useless without pictures of all the chicks you're going to nail. Hey Sinasl1, thanks for the book recommendation. I will check it out. Thanks for the advice guys. keep it comming. And Strpping young lad, I probably need that brutality as well. Thanks!Dafoe!?!?!??? Really. Think I can nail more chix with that??potaetoes, Think I'll start here... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ranalli Posted August 22, 2006 Members Share Posted August 22, 2006 Originally posted by Chad-Chicago Yeah, well it's been a while since I've posted here. Been through lots o drama. Brandi has decided she wants to be 21, single and {censored} lots of guys.It's really heartbreaking. We'd been together for 19 years. She's lived with me since she was 17. We were best of friends up till about a year ago. Had some killer times. I totally loved that whore. But she has become a shallow, pretentious, materialistic mannequin.So I appeal to my bros, help me get thru this {censored}! She moved out 2 months ago. I have been dating pretty regularly, but I feel like damaged goods. At least I've had the band to help me get thru. And Like I said, I have been serial dating(15 dates-laid 3x). But nothing feels right. {censored}ing suxor.Also, watch for a divorce gear sale....And to you young bucks considering marriage, better think twice. Nothing lasts. NOTHING. Really sorry to hear about that, Chad....that sucks. I remember you posting about how much fun you guys had on your vacation a while back. Didn't you guys own that clothes business together too?? Hope things work out....I think it will be only a matter of time before they do. With all the tail you come across something quality has to come by at some point. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members gainfreak Posted August 22, 2006 Members Share Posted August 22, 2006 Originally posted by Chad-Chicago Yeah, well it's been a while since I've posted here. Been through lots o drama. Brandi has decided she wants to be 21, single and {censored} lots of guys. It's really heartbreaking. We'd been together for 19 years. She's lived with me since she was 17. We were best of friends up till about a year ago. Had some killer times. I totally loved that whore. But she has become a shallow, pretentious, materialistic mannequin. So I appeal to my bros, help me get thru this {censored}! She moved out 2 months ago. I have been dating pretty regularly, but I feel like damaged goods. At least I've had the band to help me get thru. And Like I said, I have been serial dating(15 dates-laid 3x). But nothing feels right. {censored}ing suxor. Also, watch for a divorce gear sale.... And to you young bucks considering marriage, better think twice. Nothing lasts. NOTHING. Chad,I am very sorry to hear this bro. That said, You are a freaking stud brother so I'm pretty sure that there are another 15 girls waiting to rape the snots out of ya!! Put it this way pal... not many people will have even 1 date after a break up let alone 15. You are da man!! (I hope this cheers you up a bit bro!)That said.... your story is one of the many reasons why I will probably never get married I am truly sorry to hear the news but methinks you are gonna be just fine and I guarantee you will find the one that "feels just right"All the best brother.Ralph Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Ripfence Posted August 22, 2006 Members Share Posted August 22, 2006 All the leg in the world wont heal your pain but it sure makes a nice consolation prize Originally posted by Chad-Chicago Hey Sinasl1, thanks for the book recommendation. I will check it out. Thanks for the advice guys. keep it comming. And Strpping young lad, I probably need that brutality as well. Thanks! Dafoe!?!?!??? Really. Think I can nail more chix with that?? potaetoes, Think I'll start here... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members MitchSchaft Posted August 22, 2006 Members Share Posted August 22, 2006 Welcome to the club! Been 2 years for me . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members NITEFLY182 Posted August 22, 2006 Members Share Posted August 22, 2006 what are all those logos on the pictures? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members tlbonehead Posted August 22, 2006 Members Share Posted August 22, 2006 Originally posted by Chad-Chicago Yeah, well it's been a while since I've posted here. Been through lots o drama. Brandi has decided she wants to be 21, single and {censored} lots of guys.It's really heartbreaking. We'd been together for 19 years. She's lived with me since she was 17. We were best of friends up till about a year ago. Had some killer times. I totally loved that whore. But she has become a shallow, pretentious, materialistic mannequin.So I appeal to my bros, help me get thru this {censored}! She moved out 2 months ago. I have been dating pretty regularly, but I feel like damaged goods. At least I've had the band to help me get thru. And Like I said, I have been serial dating(15 dates-laid 3x). But nothing feels right. {censored}ing suxor.Also, watch for a divorce gear sale....And to you young bucks considering marriage, better think twice. Nothing lasts. NOTHING. Aren't you the one who always posted gig-pics of pornstar wannabes and other scantily-clad types? So,she's become shallow,huh? Do you really think this is the place to air this kind of stuff,especially considering the way you are talking about her? Plus,it sounds like you are trying the brag about your conquests. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Roy Brooks Posted August 22, 2006 Members Share Posted August 22, 2006 Ultimately y'all two weren't meant to be together. Get that divorce. Start spending time doing things YOU like to do. When the time is right you will meet the right one. And it will probably happen when you least expect it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ranalli Posted August 22, 2006 Members Share Posted August 22, 2006 Originally posted by tlbonehead Aren't you the one who always posted gig-pics of pornstar wannabes and other scantily-clad types? So,she's become shallow,huh? Do you really think this is the place to air this kind of stuff,especially considering the way you are talking about her? Plus,it sounds like you are trying the brage about your conquests. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members tlbonehead Posted August 22, 2006 Members Share Posted August 22, 2006 Originally posted by ranalli Do you have clearance from MacDeth BR549 to post that? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Fab Amp Posted August 22, 2006 Members Share Posted August 22, 2006 Originally posted by Chad-Chicago Yeah, well it's been a while since I've posted here. Been through lots o drama. Brandi has decided she wants to be 21, single and {censored} lots of guys. It's really heartbreaking. We'd been together for 19 years. She's lived with me since she was 17. We were best of friends up till about a year ago. Had some killer times. I totally loved that whore. But she has become a shallow, pretentious, materialistic mannequin. So I appeal to my bros, help me get thru this {censored}! She moved out 2 months ago. I have been dating pretty regularly, but I feel like damaged goods. At least I've had the band to help me get thru. And Like I said, I have been serial dating(15 dates-laid 3x). But nothing feels right. {censored}ing suxor. Also, watch for a divorce gear sale.... And to you young bucks considering marriage, better think twice. Nothing lasts. NOTHING. OMG, that is the {censored}s Chad. I was havin such a great day and now I feel down.Are your #s still the same, can I call you or somethin, anythin, man there are few people like you, as you would say:A stand up guy in a sit down world.Please let me know if you just need someone to talk to You will always have a friend here, I hope ya know! Originally posted by Chad-Chicago No problem meeting the girlies. Just need to get my head right. Dunno how or how long its gonna take. That bitch really {censored}ed me up! Took me five years after mine screwed me over. But I had 4 kids involved, not that you're not hurting, but I don't think you have kids, or do you? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Japetus Posted August 22, 2006 Members Share Posted August 22, 2006 Chad, I am coming up to Chicago next month. Show me the way to the poon!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members EdMan57 Posted August 22, 2006 Members Share Posted August 22, 2006 That really sucks,bro.My wife left me for a male stripper many years ago,then after a ten year marraige to this guy,he left her.She came back and said that I was the best thing that she had and that she "really blew it" by leaving me.She asked me to get back with her and I said "no thanks" and wished her luck.Self fulfilment and happiness is the best revenge,so to speak. Ed Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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