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Originally posted by tlbonehead

A year seems awfully fast if you were truly in love. I can't imagine getting back in the saddle that soon.

 

 

Agreed. I am meeting some awesome girls. Have pissed a few off already. I am not ready for a serious relationship of any kind. It really sucks. I have not been without a partner for so long, I feel empty without one.

 

Guess I need to learn to be on my own for a while before I try to get "real" with anyone.

 

I really did dig being married. I do miss my so called "best friend"

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Originally posted by Chad-Chicago



Agreed. I am meeting some awesome girls. Have pissed a few off already. I am not ready for a serious relationship of any kind. It really sucks. I have not been without a partner for so long, I feel empty without one.


Guess I need to learn to be on my own for a while before I try to get "real" with anyone.


I really did dig being married. I do miss my so called "best friend"

Yep. Every time I've broken up with someone,I've actually lost two people at the same time,sort of. The girlfriend/fiance,and my best friend.

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Originally posted by tlbonehead

Yep. Every time I've broken up with someone,I've actually lost two people at the same time,sort of. The girlfriend/fiance,and my best friend.

 

 

 

I am trying to not be jaded. Not to lose my faith in humanity. I want to believe there is something warm and tru. But this {censored} really {censored}s with the head, ya know??

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After seeing all those pics of you with all those hot chicks.... I don't feel sorry for you at all, sorry. :D Laid three times already since your wife left? heh. I don't feel any pity for you at all. You're living it up man. You're free, so seize the day before you get too old to do all that stuff.

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Originally posted by anomaly

After seeing all those pics of you with all those hot chicks.... I don't feel sorry for you at all, sorry.
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Laid three times already since your wife left? heh. I don't feel any pity for you at all. You're living it up man. You're free, so seize the day before you get too old to do all that stuff.



Yeah, I am still promoting. So no shortage of tang, by any means. But I want that partner, that best friend thing. Mabey it was all just an illusion, anyways.

And I am not looking for pity. Sympathy and be found in the dictionary between {censored} and syphilis!

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sorry, off topic but...

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word homie.

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Originally posted by Chad-Chicago

Thanks for the wishes, guys. I know I should take a break, but I feel like I have this huge hole that needs to be filled.

 

 

We all have many holes that need to filled... so get to the filling!

 

Seriously though, sounds like you picked a wild one off the vine before she peaked. Once she ripened she was too wild.

 

What dumbass designed our clocks to be outta synch? When we are building our lives, girls want bumbs, and we just want their bumbs. Then as we become stable, the younger ones want daddies. That's the golden period. Then we chill out, and they become horny little rabbits. Where were they ten years earlier? Not only do they finally have the physical desire to wander but they are tought to be emotionlly dteched and independent while we are busy getting in tuch with our feminine side and becoming complacent enough to not mind being married with children, slaving at the job everyday. By the time we're retired, they have us doing the dishes. WTF?

 

39? Find one of the ones in need of a daddy that has the strongest need for security. Hope that she can be molded, err guided, to appreciate your advantages and be latched on like a leech. I've got one from Romania, and know lots of eastern block girls... they rock! Very loyal, very tough, and decidedly and proudly non-feminists. Plus, they actually had good educations. Their childhoods were poor as {censored}, so they appreciate everything about life here. They love to mother you.

 

Eh, take a european vacation. We never heal, IME, but we learn and we try again.

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Sorry to hear that Chad,

Im with Ralph on this one - its stories like this that just make you lose faith in the whole idea of long term relationships.

I think for as long as you have emotional baggage in regards to your wife, then going out and shagging tail isnt really going to be very helpful to you.

But good luck with whatever the next tricky period brings.

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Chad,
Sorry to hear what you are going through. I went through that myself and only dated 4 women in the next ten years. Certainly wasn't the right course of action for me perhaps, but I wound up very happily married after that and still am.

From my experience, I would say to read the book mentioned to you earlier and take from it what you feel will assist you in your re-couperation period.

I understand about having plenty of women around and still feeling alone. You are in a unique situation but herhaps with the wrong type of woman for your personal needs.

One thing you might try is a European vacation alone. Go to France, England, etc. and just enjoy a different environment when time permits. This can do wonders for your mind and help you get away from the sites that remind you of your "X".

While many guys here that may be single (or not) may envy your situation, only a hot woman with a sharp mind and decent personality will really be the right course of action after you clear out the cobwebs, so to speak. Without the right personality and mindset, the hot woman becomes unattractive very quickly.

What I found out was that a woman who has been treated poorly by enough men to appreciate a really good man when she finds one, but is not soured by men in general from her past experiences, will wind up being the right person. Before that, they take too much for granted. For some women, this can happen while they are very young, say 22-25. For others it can happen between 25-29, or later, depending on each woman's personal experiences prior to you meeting them.

Don't be in any rush and be very picky about it. You will be surprised just how when you are not looking, you happen upon a good woman.
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Originally posted by Chad-Chicago

Yeah, well it's been a while since I've posted here. Been through lots o drama. Brandi has decided she wants to be 21, single and {censored} lots of guys.


It's really heartbreaking. We'd been together for 19 years. She's lived with me since she was 17. We were best of friends up till about a year ago. Had some killer times. I totally loved that whore. But she has become a shallow, pretentious, materialistic mannequin.


So I appeal to my bros, help me get thru this {censored}! She moved out 2 months ago. I have been dating pretty regularly, but I feel like damaged goods. At least I've had the band to help me get thru. And Like I said, I have been serial dating(15 dates-laid 3x). But nothing feels right. {censored}ing suxor.


Also, watch for a divorce gear sale....


And to you young bucks considering marriage, better think twice. Nothing lasts. NOTHING.

 

 

I went through a divorce thirty years ago and I wouldn't wish that experience on my worst enemy (if I had any).

 

Horrible time of my life, the very worst. Do you have kids...if not it should be a lot easier from what I hear?

 

I had to stop dating, I was in love with my ex-wife and I needed to take the time to grieve and get over my loss before I was ready to enter into a new relationship. I, like you, dated every girl in sight for about six months before I gave up.

 

Good luck try not to do anything foolish, and don't be too hard on yourself.

 

peace

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Originally posted by Chad-Chicago

Wow. Brotherly love. Priceless.

Thanks for all the support.


I know my life has been crazy with the stripper agency, club promotions, pornstar parties and womens clothing store. I have probably lived the life and fantasies of ten guys. I have no regrets.


I know she is going thru a mid-life crisis. Cinderella syndrome, if you will. But I really loved that girl for whatever reason and have no remorse. Had the best times of my life with her.


yeah, I know she will crash and burn someday and realize that she had it made. But I know, I will never be able to believer her again, I will never know where the truth ends and the lies begin. I know that she is doing blow and X. She should know better. She helped me overcome that {censored} 10 years ago. Been there, Done that, got the t-shirt. Now I clean my guitars with it.
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Besides, I had her for her hottest years. She is 36 now and her looks will fade FAST. I look at it like this: I am trading in the beat up nova for a fresh new mercedes(once I find her).


Thanks for the wishes. And for the haters, no sweat. Just hope you can heed the lesson I am laying down for you.


Nothing last forever. NOTHING!

AVOID MARRAIGE!!
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I know all about the "avoid marriage" sentiments...BUT, I re-married and have stayed married (mostly happily) for 21 years. Have one son from first marriage and two from the second one, I could not imagine going through life without the friendship and love of my wife.

Of course now is not the time for all this, but you might feel very differently in a year or two.

peace

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Originally posted by adiohead

marriage is pointless except for financial (or religious) reasons.


if you have to show your commitment with marriage then it means that you do not trust the other person



Yes because pidgeon holing people is all about open mindedness. :confused:

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