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Originally posted by tlbonehead

Aren't you the one who always posted gig-pics of pornstar wannabes and other scantily-clad types? So,she's become shallow,huh? Do you really think this is the place to air this kind of stuff,especially considering the way you are talking about her? Plus,it sounds like you are trying the brag about your conquests.

 

 

You sure know how to kick a guy when he is down huh.

 

First off, Chad has friends here so although it might be a bit off topic, he could in fact air this kind of stuff on HC.

 

Second, The pictures that you saw Chad post of scantly clad women was a part of Chads business. If you noticed, Both Chad and his ex were in the pictures and they shared a pretty healthy marriage until now.

 

As far as him Bragging... You can say what you want and twist/mistake what he is saying, but I didn't take it as bragging. Even if you do think he is bragging... maybe you should read between the lines and see that he is probably hurting and said what he said to lift up his spirits.

 

I hope that when you go through some tough times that you don't have some lameass say something to you like you did to Chad. I hope they have the common decency to engage their brain before speaking.

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If you think "getting divorced" is bad... wait until the alimony starts and you are ordered by the courts to buy her hatred every month.

I agree with "dont marry" and have already taken your advice before you gave it.
I dont know how many males have to be wiped out financially by divorce before they go "oh wait...marriage STINKS".

Dont let the guys with successful marriages suck you into the concept of marriage. They wont help you pay alimony.

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CHad,
Sorry to hear about the rough times. Too bad you weren't around earlier this Summer. We had a "Chicago Ampfest" over at SuperiorSt back in July. Probably gonna do another one in the new year, maybe January, so hold on to that gear for a while.:)

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Hey Chad, you're a great guy who pioneered those lovely Friday Girlie threads that are now banned.

Anyway, the point is, it's terrible to hear that you're going through some rough times. Just remember to look to the good stuff in life that's always helped you make the best of your time-- for me it's been music and the company of a few great friends, throwing a baseball around, and shooting a little pool. Be sure to find those things again, it can be refreshing.

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Originally posted by gainfreak



You sure know how to kick a guy when he is down huh.


First off, Chad has friends here so although it might be a bit off topic, he could in fact air this kind of stuff on HC.


Second, The pictures that you saw Chad post of scantly clad women was a part of Chads business. If you noticed, Both Chad and his ex were in the pictures and they shared a pretty healthy marriage until now.


As far as him Bragging... You can say what you want and twist/mistake what he is saying, but I didn't take it as bragging. Even if you do think he is bragging... maybe you should read between the lines and see that he is probably hurting and said what he said to lift up his spirits.


I hope that when you go through some tough times that you don't have some lameass say something to you like you did to Chad. I hope they have the common decency to engage their brain before speaking.

Well,regardless of how it ended,and yes,I've been through it,I certainly wouldn't speak that way about someone I'd spent that much time with.

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Wow. Brotherly love. Priceless.
Thanks for all the support.

I know my life has been crazy with the stripper agency, club promotions, pornstar parties and womens clothing store. I have probably lived the life and fantasies of ten guys. I have no regrets.

I know she is going thru a mid-life crisis. Cinderella syndrome, if you will. But I really loved that girl for whatever reason and have no remorse. Had the best times of my life with her.

yeah, I know she will crash and burn someday and realize that she had it made. But I know, I will never be able to believer her again, I will never know where the truth ends and the lies begin. I know that she is doing blow and X. She should know better. She helped me overcome that {censored} 10 years ago. Been there, Done that, got the t-shirt. Now I clean my guitars with it. ;)

Besides, I had her for her hottest years. She is 36 now and her looks will fade FAST. I look at it like this: I am trading in the beat up nova for a fresh new mercedes(once I find her).

Thanks for the wishes. And for the haters, no sweat. Just hope you can heed the lesson I am laying down for you.

Nothing last forever. NOTHING!
AVOID MARRAIGE!!:wave:

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Originally posted by tlbonehead

Well,regardless of how it ended,and yes,I've been through it,I certainly wouldn't speak that way about someone I'd spent that much time with.

 

 

You can't step in my {censored} till you've walked in my shoes, bro.

 

Heed the warning!

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Originally posted by Chad-Chicago

It's really heartbreaking. We'd been together for 19 years. She's lived with me since she was 17. We were best of friends up till about a year ago. Had some killer times. I totally loved that whore. But she has become a shallow, pretentious, materialistic mannequin.

 

 

i've been there and i'm 24....

 

it's true that human females are just not monogamous in nature (even though stupid wikipedia says they are).

 

i watched a BBC science program about the human species and this was stated on there.

 

women are {censored}.

 

stay single and die alone, it's not worth it!!!

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Originally posted by silvrcrank



hey, chad, you were together for 19 years, 2 months isn't gonna fix that. give it some more time.

 

 

Yeah. A good friend said it'll be at least a year. I am so {censored}ing impatient. That is why I am scared to meet someone I really dig. I am in no position to hook up in a serious manner. I have been dating some really cool girls. Even hooked up with a teacher! I just feel numb. And I don't want anyone to get caught up in my {censored}storm, ya know??

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Originally posted by Chad-Chicago



Yeah. A good friend said it'll be at least a year. I am so {censored}ing impatient. That is why I am scared to meet someone I really dig. I am in no position to hook up in a serious manner. I have been dating some really cool girls. Even hooked up with a teacher! I just feel numb. And I don't want anyone to get caught up in my {censored}storm, ya know??

A year seems awfully fast if you were truly in love. I can't imagine getting back in the saddle that soon.

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