A high paying private party no less. /sigh.
In the process of shopping, a lot of people see "live band" as a universal thing- In my questionaire, I generally state what we do, but refrain from stating what we don't (just wanted to avoid negativity), so in this last negotiation the person had already accepted our bid/offer, and the contract was sent, but in a responding email, the lady asked if we knew a few country songs she listed, then she listed a few hiop-hop artists from the 90's, also asking if we could play some of that material, and even asked us to learn a few of her husbands favorite songs from those genres.
I replied back with our full song list, telling her that "this" is what we do, and explained how we do it, and that I didn't think we were a good fit for her needs. She replied back agreeing, so poof goes the gig
I think I need to update our profile online and be more specific as to what kind of band we really are.