Members mis5dis6gis7 Posted January 17, 2010 Members Share Posted January 17, 2010 First semester in college worked backwards from what I thought it was gong to. I'm down to like 6 or 7 friends. I don't even like some of them. How do I meet some new people? There is a girl in my pre-calc class I want to get to know but everyway I think about talking it makes me feel creepy. Also, should I get the DLS or not? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members PKTrono Posted January 17, 2010 Members Share Posted January 17, 2010 give her a margot cd Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members RadioSilence Posted January 17, 2010 Members Share Posted January 17, 2010 hugz Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Drifter182 Posted January 17, 2010 Members Share Posted January 17, 2010 be yourself. if people dont like that, then its probably better you aren't friends witht hem. its not how many you have, but how good they are. plus you always have us Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members frankiej Posted January 17, 2010 Members Share Posted January 17, 2010 Talk about her....Ask general questions... What I have learned in my life, if your socially awkward now, you'll always be somewhat socially awkward. You just need to find people whom share common interests and can deal with it. Don't feel soo bad, I hate about 4 out of 6 of my suitemates. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Drifter182 Posted January 17, 2010 Members Share Posted January 17, 2010 do you work? working at some place casual instantly gives you the illusion of friendship. and even some real friends Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members goaway Posted January 17, 2010 Members Share Posted January 17, 2010 i hate everyone who goes to my school except like 2 or 3 people....so i never leave my room. never talk to anyone. never do anything......its sad. cant wait to transfer Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members woolyh Posted January 17, 2010 Members Share Posted January 17, 2010 simple... grow a manly beard. and stare at people alot... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Drifter182 Posted January 17, 2010 Members Share Posted January 17, 2010 also, we need more info on this chick. do you want to be friends or is this BOW CHICKA WOW WOW.your best bet is to "run into her" somewhere on campus and talk about class, then work your way up to the school in general, the area, the weather, and sex. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members wilsoneffectsll Posted January 17, 2010 Members Share Posted January 17, 2010 be yourself. if people dont like that, then its probably better you aren't friends witht hem.its not how many you have, but how good they are.plus you always have us This and sure why not!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Chronicle Posted January 17, 2010 Members Share Posted January 17, 2010 you dont have me Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members frankiej Posted January 17, 2010 Members Share Posted January 17, 2010 If you don't have no confidence..Well, you won't get far. *which seems the case* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members woolyh Posted January 17, 2010 Members Share Posted January 17, 2010 If you don't have no confidence..Well, you won't get far.*which seems the case* having a beard equals confidence confidence equals having a beard Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members TravvyBear Posted January 17, 2010 Members Share Posted January 17, 2010 We can't have 2 Nirvana's in the band. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members goaway Posted January 17, 2010 Members Share Posted January 17, 2010 If you don't have no confidence..Well, you won't get far.*which seems the case* my problem exactly. im scared to death whenever i talk to girls (or anyone really....but especially girls) that i dont know or am not already in the friend zone with i just end up doing really dumb crap or just doing an awkward wave or head nod then walking away. im my own worst enemy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members mis5dis6gis7 Posted January 17, 2010 Author Members Share Posted January 17, 2010 Multi-quote waaaatWe can't have 2 Nirvana's in the band.Should I pull a Jerry and talk about anthrax and heroin? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Alex W Posted January 17, 2010 Members Share Posted January 17, 2010 simple... grow a manly beard. and stare at people alot... What you need my friend...pedo beard or rapist glasses.[YOUTUBE][/YOUTUBE] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members mis5dis6gis7 Posted January 17, 2010 Author Members Share Posted January 17, 2010 my problem exactly. im scared to death whenever i talk to girls (or anyone really....but especially girls) that i dont know or am not already in the friend zone with i just end up doing really dumb crap or just doing an awkward wave or head nod then walking away. im my own worst enemy I having trouble getting started with people. Once I have talked to them a few times it gets pretty easy for me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Drifter182 Posted January 17, 2010 Members Share Posted January 17, 2010 if you want to just be friends, I still stand by that post, just wait until later in the friendship to bring up sex Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Mistersuperfly Posted January 17, 2010 Members Share Posted January 17, 2010 Ehh, girls aren't worth the headache anyways... Best thing you can do is have a group of friends that you can be really comfortable around, comfort=confidence, then approach the girls. I just talk to girls like I would anyone else, like a sarcastic asshole (but not TOO sarcastic, and I only make fun of or am sarcastic about myself, don't want to make the girl self conscious). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members PKTrono Posted January 17, 2010 Members Share Posted January 17, 2010 too many nirvana's spoil the broth Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Fendert Posted January 17, 2010 Members Share Posted January 17, 2010 Dude seriously all you have to do is compliment her and let her talk about her self, chicks love talking about their self, and their crap ( jewelry, cloths)once you get that ball rolling start building momentum on the "REAL" conversation, like whats each others story where she is from, where you are from. If you are ballsy enough to just speak to a pretty girl, thats all you need I promise Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members mis5dis6gis7 Posted January 17, 2010 Author Members Share Posted January 17, 2010 Ehh, girls aren't worth the headache anyways... Best thing you can do is have a group of friends that you can be really comfortable around, comfort=confidence, then approach the girls. I just talk to girls like I would anyone else, like a sarcastic asshole (but not TOO sarcastic, and I only make fun of or am sarcastic about myself, don't want to make the girl self conscious). I have a friend that you hide form any and all girls. I dunno what that poor guy is going to do with his life. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Mistersuperfly Posted January 17, 2010 Members Share Posted January 17, 2010 Wow apparently I hit 7000 posts, and did not celebrate it... honestly that makes me feel like I should put the computer down and go find a lady friend to talk to. mehhh... Oh, and being comfortable with the way you look also ='s confidence... if you compared me in high school to me now you'd laugh, it takes a conscious effort but it's well worth it in the end. A girl being attracted to you in the first place is the best icebreaker of all time, there is no better. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members mis5dis6gis7 Posted January 17, 2010 Author Members Share Posted January 17, 2010 Also, pending this doesn't work out, where is somewhere I could go to try and make some new friends? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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