Members JeffBass Posted November 22, 2009 Members Share Posted November 22, 2009 No. Not to mention if Nicole was working a stripper pole, she'd come home with a broken something at least once a week. She'd probably fly off the pole and knock over some patrons and get the place sued. I didn't sue. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members lokidecat Posted November 22, 2009 Members Share Posted November 22, 2009 If the communication of the boundary becomes an ultimatum, how is it not? An ultimatum can't be anything but a threat.*snip*... My pat reaction to ultimatums: If given one, I automatically go with the alternate choice. "It's me or something," is greeted with me going with the something on principle alone. Real adults communicate and may even compromise, not give ultimatums. The "my way or the highway" will have me pack my bags 100% of the time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Jazz Ad Posted November 22, 2009 Members Share Posted November 22, 2009 I agree with this and react the same to ultimatums.However I don't see my position as an ultimatum or threat and wouldn't formulate it this way. If I don't like the way a person is acting and it highly disturbs me, I hardly can find a reason to stay with her. Therefore I shall leave.Now ,to re-iterate since it's the main question from OP, no I wouldn't mind at all if Mrs Jazz Ad did strip for a living.You guys make this so much more complicated than it is. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Cpt. Spliff Posted November 22, 2009 Members Share Posted November 22, 2009 I'm somewhat intrigued by this thread. Back in the '80s I dated a stripper. She told me of her job at an early stage. She did lapdance, too, but not prostitution. To me, that made a heck of a difference and she was a nice kid. Most selfconfessed tits and ass lovers here would have been cool watching my g/f, but would be uncool with me watching theirs. I'm not seeking a war, but doesn't it suggest a certain amount of double standards ? Just sayin'. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Jazz Ad Posted November 22, 2009 Members Share Posted November 22, 2009 Funnily I'm the exact opposite. I hate strip clubs and never go there. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Cpt. Spliff Posted November 22, 2009 Members Share Posted November 22, 2009 Funnily I'm the exact opposite. I hate strip clubs and never go there. They are not my natural habitat either. I just happened to meet this girl. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members t3ch Posted November 22, 2009 Members Share Posted November 22, 2009 Jazzy is responding to this. t3ch and KK are responding to this I do believe. Hence the confusion. My answer is the same regardless of which question. I can't think of a situation where we'd need money so badly I'd agree with her stripping.Then again, maybe if she just did it for a couple nights... could knock out the debt, buy some new furniture, bigger tv... But only for a couple nights!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Roger in the sky Posted November 22, 2009 Members Share Posted November 22, 2009 My pat reaction to ultimatums:If given one, I automatically go with the alternate choice. "It's me or something," is greeted with me going with the something on principle alone. Real adults communicate and may even compromise, not give ultimatums.The "my way or the highway" will have me pack my bags 100% of the time. you see the irony here right? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members toolbar Posted November 22, 2009 Members Share Posted November 22, 2009 Married? No, if I have to bang you and only you the rest of my life, then you can keep your shirt on. ...Aint love beautiful. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members P1gg1e Posted November 22, 2009 Members Share Posted November 22, 2009 So those that don't agree with a partner stripping or going topless, how do you feel as a band member/bass player when woman flash you onstage? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members georgestrings Posted November 22, 2009 Members Share Posted November 22, 2009 Having dated a couple of strippers in the past, I have no desire to revisit that sort of thing, so the answer is definitely no... Also, sounds like the frenchman needs to strengthen his pimp hand... - georgestrings Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members bassman1956 Posted November 22, 2009 Members Share Posted November 22, 2009 How many people share internet porn? Thousands. Women, men, couples, groups, etc. As a significant percentage of the population? Posting, no, maybe not. Watching, yes. There's an idea with internet posting like this, which often goes much farther than just stripping, is that it's incognito. The locals aren't likely to know you did it, even if thousands see you otherwise. Since other locals won't know, your image will stay intact, and so one can get away with being dirty. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members NeonVomit Posted November 22, 2009 Members Share Posted November 22, 2009 If we needed the cash, and it stays just stripping, I'd be cool with it. They do pull in a tidy packet, it has to be said. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members s4001 Posted November 22, 2009 Members Share Posted November 22, 2009 So those that don't agree with a partner stripping or going topless, how do you feel as a band member/bass player when woman flash you onstage?SSSHHHHH!!!! My wife does a great job pretending she doesn't know that happens. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members moogieotter Posted November 22, 2009 Author Members Share Posted November 22, 2009 Hmm...results. We got some nice pics of Nicole Sugarskull got some nice ideas on supplimental income. /thread Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators isaac42 Posted November 22, 2009 Moderators Share Posted November 22, 2009 Ah, so if it was in Las Vegas or Amsterdam, where it would be perfectly legal, you'd therefore be perfectly okay with her becoming a prostitute? Prostitution isn't legal in Las Vegas. I know that doesn't have anything to do with your point, I'm just sayin'. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators isaac42 Posted November 22, 2009 Moderators Share Posted November 22, 2009 We're all wondering this. Indeed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members King Kashue Posted November 22, 2009 Members Share Posted November 22, 2009 Prostitution isn't legal in Las Vegas. I know that doesn't have anything to do with your point, I'm just sayin'. Illegal in Clark County, interesting. Evidently I should have just said Nevada in general (not something I've ever looked into in detail ). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members King Kashue Posted November 22, 2009 Members Share Posted November 22, 2009 So those that don't agree with a partner stripping or going topless, how do you feel as a band member/bass player when woman flash you onstage? If it's not my partner, why would I personally care? I could see my partner getting a little bit upset at me if I fixated on the flasher, but otherwise I don't see how it would affect much of anything. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members P1gg1e Posted November 22, 2009 Members Share Posted November 22, 2009 If it's not my partner, why would I personally care? I could see my partner getting a little bit upset at me if I fixated on the flasher, but otherwise I don't see how it would affect much of anything.Sorry I meant to say about their partner flashing the band. Or the other way around. Its not for money just for fun Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members King Kashue Posted November 22, 2009 Members Share Posted November 22, 2009 Sorry I meant to say about their partner flashing the band. Or the other way around. Its not for money just for fun Personally, I wouldn't like it, but it wouldn't be a huge thing. I'm a private person in general, so public displays aren't my thing. However, I see much a much larger difference between just the pay aspect. Flashing a band is a shock move, designed to get a "Whoa, look at that!" reaction. Stripping is designed to illicit a very different reaction from the audience...If she was flashing my band while I was on stage, I'd probably be relatively okay with it.In either case, it seems relatively harmless overall. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members t3ch Posted November 23, 2009 Members Share Posted November 23, 2009 Sorry I meant to say about their partner flashing the band. Or the other way around. Its not for money just for fun I'd slap her upside the head when we got home, then be over it. If it became a habit of constantly showing her boobs in public, well... then we might have to have a talk. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members perrydabassman Posted November 23, 2009 Members Share Posted November 23, 2009 I already have guys shouting at me to take my clothes off when I'm on stage and it might be nice to have a "you cannot touch the performer" rule for once. Strippers make 10 times what I do too. Why the hell am I not stripping?! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members P1gg1e Posted November 23, 2009 Members Share Posted November 23, 2009 If it became a habit of constantly showing her boobs in public, well... then we might have to have a talk. Depends on why she is showing her boobs though right? There are meny reasons to get them out in public KK - Personally, I wouldn't like it, but it wouldn't be a huge thing. I'm a private person in general, so public displays aren't my thing. However, I see much a much larger difference between just the pay aspect. Flashing a band is a shock move, designed to get a "Whoa, look at that!" reaction. Stripping is designed to illicit a very different reaction from the audience... If she was flashing my band while I was on stage, I'd probably be relatively okay with it. In either case, it seems relatively harmless overall. Well it also depends. I don't flash BP7770's band because I feel uncomfortable with knowing they saw my boobs. I though think if your working in an strip club its more relaxed and expected. You have more nudity and its not as shocking when more people are naked. If your not at your partners work then your more removed from the situation. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members lokidecat Posted November 23, 2009 Members Share Posted November 23, 2009 you see the irony here right? No, but that's because there is no 'irony' in what I said. If you're saying that my anti-ultimate stance is an ultimatum, you're really stretching things (still not irony). If you're saying my intolerance of them makes me just as bad as people who don't communicate readily, you're wrong (still not irony). I just state it for future knowledge: don't bother with ultimatums, because they don't work on me. And guilt trips very, very rarely work. My sister/mother are too good at it, and I was Roman Catholic (escaped @ age 17), so my guilt tolerance is too high for most people. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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