Members Uncle_Milton Posted February 22, 2010 Members Share Posted February 22, 2010 If the future mother in law asked you to ask her for her blessing, doesn't that imply that she's expecting it? Shouldn't that also mean, that if she's not a deceiving villian, she's probably already ok with it, and you should expect a pleasant response from her when you ask. Sounds like you don't have much to worry about. Best of luck, and condolences at the same time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members isvoid Posted February 22, 2010 Members Share Posted February 22, 2010 That's the proper thing to do when you want to marry someone's daughter. You guys have never heard of that? Unless she has zero relationship with her parents, you should always do this unless you don't mind disrespecting her parents. THIS Tho based on the stats in the original thread I wonder if he'll get her blessing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members getglockd Posted February 22, 2010 Author Members Share Posted February 22, 2010 If the future mother in law asked you to ask her for her blessing, doesn't that imply that she's expecting it? Shouldn't that also mean, that if she's not a deceiving villian, she's probably already ok with it, and you should expect a pleasant response from her when you ask. Sounds like you don't have much to worry about. Best of luck, and condolences at the same time. it doesn't change the fact that i'm still nervous as {censored}. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Shask Posted February 22, 2010 Members Share Posted February 22, 2010 "Don't you want your grandchild to have a dad? " Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members The Killjoy Posted February 22, 2010 Members Share Posted February 22, 2010 it doesn't change the fact that i'm still nervous as {censored}. just don't throw up on her:lol: I can't help but think back to meet the parents reading this thread. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Oblivion DC Posted February 22, 2010 Members Share Posted February 22, 2010 But what if Mom-in-Law says no? Then you don't get the blessing but you still marry the girl. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members guidedbyechoes Posted February 22, 2010 Members Share Posted February 22, 2010 i haven't asked her to marry me yet, officially anyway Oh ok I thought you were the same guy getting married in less than 6 months Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Samnite Posted February 22, 2010 Members Share Posted February 22, 2010 tonight i'm going to ask the girlfriends mom if i can have her blessing on our marriageKudos! It's a classy thing to do. It shows respect. I asked my father-in-law for his permission to marry my wife, even though I knew full well that he would have no problems with it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Oblivion DC Posted February 22, 2010 Members Share Posted February 22, 2010 it doesn't change the fact that i'm still nervous as {censored}.Congrats man. I drove 8 hours to ask my girls parents - and then 8 hours back home.Hellish drive but definitely worth it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members getglockd Posted February 22, 2010 Author Members Share Posted February 22, 2010 Oh ok I thought you were the same guy getting married in less than 6 months i am, i'm getting married in may. my girlfriend and i decided on all of that already, we just have to go through the formalities. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Uncle_Milton Posted February 22, 2010 Members Share Posted February 22, 2010 it doesn't change the fact that i'm still nervous as {censored}. My brain is unfortunately, crazy logical, so knowing the answer I'm going to get would calm me right down, for some it wouldn't. Congratz dude. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Unstrung Posted February 22, 2010 Members Share Posted February 22, 2010 If she says no, pimp slap her and tell her she's excluded from your family. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members nvranka Posted February 22, 2010 Members Share Posted February 22, 2010 nerves are understandable. and yes, asking for her blessing is the proper and nice thing to do. (since the father isnt in the picture) honestly, i'd say take a few shots before you go. It'll ease the nerves and make it easier. But make sure you have a piece of gum or soemthing before, so your breath doesnt smell like alcohol haha. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Dolf Posted February 22, 2010 Members Share Posted February 22, 2010 Good luck, man! Yeah, it's super nerve-wracking. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members t1r2u3s4t Posted February 22, 2010 Members Share Posted February 22, 2010 If they are just formalities, why nervous then?i am, i'm getting married in may.my girlfriend and i decided on all of that already, we just have to go through the formalities. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Sheik_Yerbouti Posted February 22, 2010 Members Share Posted February 22, 2010 What if she says no? That might be a little awkward for while after you've married her daughter [YOUTUBE][/YOUTUBE] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Cougar Hunter Posted February 22, 2010 Members Share Posted February 22, 2010 OP, how old are you? I'm 28, an I can't imagine getting married before 32 or so?? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members getglockd Posted February 22, 2010 Author Members Share Posted February 22, 2010 OP, how old are you?I'm 28, an I can't imagine getting married before 32 or so?? 28 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members koen77 Posted February 22, 2010 Members Share Posted February 22, 2010 good luck to you and your future wife. Marriage is a blast ! (with the right girl that is) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Ripley7t Posted February 23, 2010 Members Share Posted February 23, 2010 your mom-in-law actually wants to have sex with you. do it. This, you know it to be true. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Acshreds Posted February 23, 2010 Members Share Posted February 23, 2010 dont ask her if you can marry her daughter....Tell that bitch you're gonna marry her daughter! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members JimAnsell Posted February 23, 2010 Members Share Posted February 23, 2010 tonight i'm going to ask the girlfriends mom if i can have her blessing on our marriage does the mom like you? are the two of them close? i didn't ask my wifes mom first. her dad passed away 3 years earlier, but i know he liked me. he was a ham radio dork who liked to talk about tubes. i didn't even tell anyone except my mom, my best friend, and her brother before i did it. its 2010, if shes old enough to make her own decisions, you really don't HAVE to ask them. its cool if you do though because its very traditional. i wouldn't sweat it dude, as long as she likes you. if she doesn't, you gotta step up your game, and really win her over. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members isvoid Posted February 23, 2010 Members Share Posted February 23, 2010 dont ask her if you can marry her daughter....Tell that bitch you're gonna marry her daughter! at your e-balls Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members potaetoes Posted February 23, 2010 Members Share Posted February 23, 2010 mother in law just wants him to know who's boss. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members JesterRace51 Posted February 23, 2010 Members Share Posted February 23, 2010 WHY SO NERVOUS? Lol, seriously. Congratulations. Regardless of what she says, you know you'll still be marrying her. It is the proper thing to do, and I plan on asking BOTH of my girlfriend's parents when the time comes, which I strongly believe will, and soon. I've been with her for 2 years, and I already know I want to marry her, and I'm only 24. Young and stupid? Yes probably, but I love the woman. She has all her ducks in a row. A freak in bed? Check. A good cook? Check. Passionate? Check. Loves my guitar playing? Check. Bitch? Nope. I'm fully expecting an aftermath thread btw.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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