But we could use a couple of good powered monitors, and my suggestions about each person should maybe provide their own we're rebuffed by my partners. Not shy about wanting things mixed better for them though.
Just get a little tired of loading and unloading all the gear at home before and after gigs alone in addition to my personal instruments and sundries. Others just have to bring their own instrument. They do help with set up and tear down at gigs themselves.
I know it's partially my fault for not saying things over the last few years. But they are grown ups and decent, well-raised adults as well.