Members SelenaBassGirl Posted December 31, 2008 Author Members Share Posted December 31, 2008 thank you all for your kind words. I am sorry to hear about those that also lost family members recently.All I can do is cherish the memories and know that he is alive in my heart.Reading these replies put tears in my eyes, but also at the same time, comforted me knowing that there are others out there who care and understand.Please all, don't forget to tell your loved one that you love them, cause you never know. I was bad about calling him as often as I should, and now I regret it, but I can never change that..All I can do is know that he knows that I loved him and still do..again, thank you! peace and have a safe New Years! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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CMS Author Craig Vecchione Posted January 2, 2009 CMS Author Share Posted January 2, 2009 thank you all for your kind words. I am sorry to hear about those that also lost family members recently.All I can do is cherish the memories and know that he is alive in my heart.Reading these replies put tears in my eyes, but also at the same time, comforted me knowing that there are others out there who care and understand.Please all, don't forget to tell your loved one that you love them, cause you never know. I was bad about calling him as often as I should, and now I regret it, but I can never change that..All I can do is know that he knows that I loved him and still do..again, thank you! peace and have a safe New Years! Hoo-boy, I just saw this thread, and can I ever relate to your words and feelings. My dad passed in early January 2001, lived far away, and I too was less than close with him. He also passed from a series of illnesses that would be difficult at best to beat, so I can readily empathize. I was "okay" when I learned he passed. Until that evening, when I was alone, and realized that my daddy was gone. I cried like a baby, like I'd never cried before. To this day, merely saying or thinking of the phrase "my daddy is gone" brings me to tears. I figure that sadness and feeling of loss won't ever go away, and I am okay with it. It's proof to myself that I loved him and always will, no matter what transpired in our relationship. Please accept my heartfelt condolences for your loss. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members RIC N BACKER Posted January 2, 2009 Members Share Posted January 2, 2009 My condolences to you and your family Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members RIC N BACKER Posted January 2, 2009 Members Share Posted January 2, 2009 Hey - I know you dont know me from a hole in the ground. but My dad (also the only family i ever had) passed away a year ago at this time. There's nothing to say, all the cliche's just suck. It still hurts and it still sucks and i'm not over it and i probably wont ever be. BUT i can tell you the thing that helped me the most was talking about it. a LOT. and writing about it. writing memories of him. talking with friends of mine who loved him, talking to his friends. keeps him alive in my heart. keep talking and sharing your feelings and memories. and dont be afraid to ask for and accept help. *HUG* I couldnt have said it better, The 25 th anniversary of my Fathers passing was at the begining of December. I am still not over it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Bubbalou Posted January 2, 2009 Members Share Posted January 2, 2009 Yes, I too know the pain of "Wish I had"I prayer for peace in your mind and God to carry you through this.God Bless Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members bluedogaudio Posted January 2, 2009 Members Share Posted January 2, 2009 Sorry to hear about your loss. I'm kind of dealing with a similar situation. My mom has cancer and probably won't make it to 2010. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Rob Martinez Posted January 2, 2009 Members Share Posted January 2, 2009 God bless your father and God bless you and your family. I lost two sisters to cancer in less than a year, just last year, so I can relate. My condolences. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members citizenralph Posted January 2, 2009 Members Share Posted January 2, 2009 Sorry for your loss. Prayer for you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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