Here is the sequence of events at it happened:
I wrote at 4:33pm: "Also how long are the leads. Most likely I'd use it for the neck as I need a hotter bridge pickup.
If you can get springs and screws that fit it, I will most likely buy it provided you can meet the other requirements I mentioned."
a minute earlier at 4:32pm Twotimingpete wrote: "okay, it took me all of 30 seconds to find. I have the box, screws, and springs it came with." (I didn't read this message until I after I wrote my message at 4:33pm) I read his post and waited until 5pm to get an answer whether the leads were long enough for the neck position, and as I stated if those requirements are met I will buy it. Short of saying, "I will take it" I was saying "most likely buy it" as a condition if the leads were long enough I will buy it.
I had to leave at this point for the Living Colour concert in New Port Richey and didn't get home till well after 3am.
At 5:09pm he wrote: "it has the spring and the screws that came with it. it also has the full lead (I never shorten leads) which is pretty long. I can't measure it until I disinstall it from the axe it's in."
my car broke so I may not be able to ship until Monday. so you have time to think about it unless someone else swoops in."
There was nothing for me to think about. I left the idea that I would buy it provided it had the screws and springs (which I found out it did before I left for the show) AND the leads were long enough for the neck (which I didn't read that message until this morning).
If I were the seller in this situation and the same thing happened to me and had another interested party for the pickup, I would tell the second person, "There is person that is planning on buying the pickup but I have to wait to find out if he will take it for sure as he was waiting to hear back from me if the lead was long enough. Once I hear back from him I will let you know. For now you are the backup offer."
Is this too much to ask for people to be considerate like I always am?
Twotimingpete I am sorry for lashing out but I am frustrated when people do this.