Members Kaesh Posted July 25, 2006 Author Members Share Posted July 25, 2006 I'm 19 and she's 16.I'm well aware of everything you said, but that just doesn't matter, because the point of this thread I need tips on how to get over her, not tips on how to seduce her. Not to mention that I was looking for something more elaborate, because like I said, I tried getting it on with others and the effects are completely opposite to the desired ones, because I'm just reminded of my failure. PS. Age of consent is 15 here Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members MrJoshua Posted July 25, 2006 Members Share Posted July 25, 2006 Here's a possibility. Leave women alone for a while. It sounds like you have some baggage you need to work out before you look to get into any kind of relationship. Stop thinking about girls and get your own stuff straightened out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Kaesh Posted July 25, 2006 Author Members Share Posted July 25, 2006 Originally posted by MrJoshua Here's a possibility. Leave women alone for a while. It sounds like you have some baggage you need to work out before you look to get into any kind of relationship. Stop thinking about girls and get your own stuff straightened out. That's exactly what I'm trying to do. As you may have noticed, the very reason behind this thread's existence is that I randomly ran into her at a pub (after not seeing her for approximately 3 months). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members bassment zombie Posted July 25, 2006 Members Share Posted July 25, 2006 Originally posted by Kaesh ...because the point of this thread I need tips on how to get over her, not tips on how to seduce her. You know the answer to this already...pick yourself up off the sad-sack cellar floor you're groveling around on, stand up as straight as you can, and put yourself out there among the living. Sounds stupifyingly easy, perhaps stupifyingly simple-minded, and in your case, you feel you've tried it once or twice and it hasn't worked. Well, it hasn't 'taken' yet. You need to keep doing it. You wont be transformed due to one or two efforts. Its a marathon.The best thing you can do for yourself is to pick yourself up, 'hello' to the world, and put yourself out there. To continue to do what you're doing not only sends the message like the bat-signal in Gotham loud and clear that you're a sad, whipped sack, but it also sends the message loud and clear that you don't think much of yourself, and that other's shouldn't either. Whether you do or you don't, you need to at least 'fake it till you make it' - put yourself out there, meet people, have fun, be social, move towards being process-oriented instead of goal-oriented. The beauty is in the process. You'll have some great times, some lousy times, but you'll grow, develop, feel much better about yourself, and day by day get one step closer to where you want to be...up off that crappy floor you've been sniveling.You're sending out the message that you think quite lowly of yourself, and that others should do. It's difficult for any woman to find that attractive and appealing (any healthy woman worth being with, that is!). Its quite possible that her girlfriends take pity on you, feel sorry for you and view you as 'the poor guy' that they'd like to coddle. That's definitely not what you want, either. But no matter...none of their assessments of you matter, what matters most is what you think of yourself, and your actions state loud and clear that its not much.You don't need to be so motivated or sure of yourself. You can feel as crud as you are right now. The only thing that matters is that you simply DO it - the rest will follow. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Kaesh Posted July 25, 2006 Author Members Share Posted July 25, 2006 I made it sound wrong. This sad sack crap isn't visible in real life at all. Hell, I'm actually full of myself like few other. Which may be one of the reasons for that stupid crap, because everything in my life has been going pretty damn smooth so far (I study on the hardest-to-get-admitted faculty in the country - 3500 candidates every year), to get a taste how much of a megalomaniac I must be) and it makes this hurt all the more. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Crescent Seven Posted July 25, 2006 Members Share Posted July 25, 2006 Originally posted by Kaesh I made it sound wrong. This sad sack crap isn't visible in real life at all. Hell, I'm actually full of myself like few other. Which may be one of the reasons for that stupid crap, because everything in my life has been going pretty damn smooth so far (I study on the hardest-to-get-admitted faculty in the country - 3500 candidates every year), to get a taste how much of a megalomaniac I must be) and it makes this hurt all the more. Oh, so your ego is hurting, not your heart? {censored} off then, I don't even want to hear about this {censored}.C7 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Kaesh Posted July 25, 2006 Author Members Share Posted July 25, 2006 Originally posted by Crescent Seven Oh, so your ego is hurting, not your heart? {censored} off then, I don't even want to hear about this {censored}. C7 Both are. That is the whole goddamn problem. The whole thing both saddens and annoys me, and the two aspects continuosly feed each other in a neverending circle EDIT: To put it differently, I do genuinely care for her, but I am troubled by the fact I don't understand her motives (and the fact I most likely never will only pisses me off more) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members MrJoshua Posted July 25, 2006 Members Share Posted July 25, 2006 You should get an emo haircut and start a band. You'll have chicks all over the place. Don't actually date any, though, as that would mess up the whole emo image. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Fireball_73 Posted July 25, 2006 Members Share Posted July 25, 2006 Originally posted by MrJoshua You should get an emo haircut and start a band. You'll have chicks all over the place. Don't actually date any, though, as that would mess up the whole emo image. Thats what emo guys are for! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members venturawest Posted July 25, 2006 Members Share Posted July 25, 2006 Originally posted by BigPigPeaches + a lot.Separated at birth, I'm tellin ya. amen, brother. wait 'til i come to dallas, we're going to tear that place apart. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members bringtherock Posted July 25, 2006 Members Share Posted July 25, 2006 I kinda winged a 5-step solution to girls when my first (and only true) relationship failed. 1) Smoke a lot of pot 2) Pick up your bass and play 3) Hang out with your real friends 4) Talk to some random people 5) Repeat Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ryanstanley Posted July 25, 2006 Members Share Posted July 25, 2006 Originally posted by MrJoshua You should get an emo haircut and start a band. You'll have chicks all over the place. Don't actually date any, though, as that would mess up the whole emo image. haha.. honestly, this works. not kidding in the slightest. i did it, i was swimming in underage {censored} the entire time i was in the band. and you seem to be all about the youngins, so it's perfect for you! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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