Members Lurko Posted June 10, 2007 Members Share Posted June 10, 2007 I've put up with a lot of crap from this guy for what's supposed to be a for-fun situation. He is a bullier with a "If I talk louder than you I win" approach to life. We practice in his house, which is close to mine and very convenient, so I've tended to suck it up and move on when he was disrespectful to me or bandmates (my skin is pretty thick). Today he copped attitude with my wife on the phone. Final straw stacked. {censored} you, goodbye asswipe. Life's too short to put up with dickheads like this. :mad: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members srsfallriver Posted June 10, 2007 Members Share Posted June 10, 2007 When a "for fun" gig ain't fun no more.......move on. That's what I would've done. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Lurko Posted June 10, 2007 Author Members Share Posted June 10, 2007 You are right, man. I'm 36 years old. I don't need people like this in my life. The catch (there's always a catch, right?): dumping him means finding a new drummer and teaching them the songs, etc. Ugh. Not looking forward to that. But eff it. Like I said, once you disrespect my wife, it's over. I'm ditching practice today because I know it will end very badly if I go over there right now. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members srsfallriver Posted June 10, 2007 Members Share Posted June 10, 2007 If any bandmate were to cop an attitude with my wife, I'd have to leave or get that person to leave. You gotta keep the peace at home or everything else in your life is going to suck. Who wants to go home to a headache? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Li10 Posted June 10, 2007 Members Share Posted June 10, 2007 why don't you just practice with the other dudes elsewhere and tell the drummer to piss off? If he's disrespectful to you and your bandmates.... he sounds like an absolute piece of crap. He's too much of an idiot to be an asswipe. I think I got that the wrong way around.... which is lower, toilet paper or a piece of crap? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members FitchFY Posted June 10, 2007 Members Share Posted June 10, 2007 The guy sounds like a dillweed. Good decision on walking away! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members guitarsjb Posted June 10, 2007 Members Share Posted June 10, 2007 Sounds like our ex singer. Good move on ditching him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members bassred Posted June 11, 2007 Members Share Posted June 11, 2007 Bands are so much fun, aren't they!? I agree that if it isn't fun it isn't worth it. I've seen some members come and go, some for good reasons (family matters) and some for really stupid reasons, in the end it's better that you part ways so you can all get on with your lives Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members BadgerMolester Posted June 11, 2007 Members Share Posted June 11, 2007 Sounded like a bit of a cock, he did. Good move there! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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