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Knottyhed

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  1. Get a GOOD Lawyer NOW...File for joint custody but you want physical custody. You'll have the kids for at least 6 months while she is training I would think so you have a very good chance of getting perminent physical custody. I think this is a bad thing for her, joining the AirForce if she really wants the kids living with her. She WILL BE deployed sometime in the near future as well so you should get them then as well. All in all, it would not be a stable home for your kids with her and it will be easy to show that in this political climate. .She is making a mistake here. So Calm down and get busy. Yeh - that's the way I see it too.
  2. but he drinks, "real", "manly" beers... LOL - oh well I take it all back then, he's way cool and deserves our respect!!
  3. The thing that pisses me off the most is that the fate of my relationship with my kids is gonna be up to two bickering, snaked tongue lawyers and possibly even a judge later on. At first, it was gonna be joint custody and now it has turned into this. Yeh that sucks. If there's no talking her out of it (doesn't sound like there is) then you're just going to have to get off the ropes and start fighting. Keep yourself calm and dignified, talk to your lawyer about the options and how the obvious instability she will cause for the kids will effect her case. There's no point in getting angry or stewing over it, what she does is beyond your control. Just do what you can to protect your interests and those of your kids.
  4. no actually, i think the comment that provoked my comment, was one that went along the lines of , he'll kick you arse with a beer in his hand you dumb kid. so how about reading a litle deeper before sticking your nose in. {censored} Seriously guys, he's obviously some ass-wipe with a chip on his shoulder cos his parents don't understand him, he can't get laid and everyone at school thought he was a asshole. Deep down he hates himself and coming on this forum and acting like a douche is his way of dealing with it. Ignore him and he'll eventually go back to wanking over gay porn or whatever it is he does when he's not trying to make himself feel important on internet forums.
  5. So the soon to be ex-wife calls me up and seems one of her friends has convinced her to join the Air Force. That's all good that she wants to better herself, but here's where the problem arrives. See, we were originally gonna do a joint custody of my kids and both live here in SA. But now, if she joins they could send her ANYWHERE and she says SHE wants custody which would basically make me have to follow her wherever she has to go for Uncle Sam if I want to see my kids. This totally pisses me off because I have been the best parent I can be considering the circumstances and she has put little effort into being one for the past 6 months. Now, with a "contested" divorce here in Texas, she could win custody of our kids and I'd be a {censored}ing nomad if I want to be part of their lives. This was NOT the original plan for the divorce and she has gone and thrown a {censored}ing monkey wrench in the godamn spokes. I can't be without my kids. I won't do it. I WILL NOT be a weekend dad (or worse yet a once or twice a year dad). I'm so {censored}ing pissed right now I don't know whether to punch something or just breakdown and have a good cry. {censored}!!!! That's pure selfishness, I shouldn't wonder if the possibility of screwing you over on the kids is part of why she wants to join? Talk to a lawyer and see how this effects things. Mothers are usually favoured, but in this case - well as an active duty service person she won't be able to offer a stable background. a.) There's a chance she will be away for months on active service in a foreign country. b.) If she's moving all over the country it is not good for the kids, who will have to constantly change school, make new friends etc. It has been proven that such nomadic lifestyle does not help children achieve good grades... find some of that research to throw up in court. c.) It will no doubt involve some shift work. So this *could* work in your favour. I should imagine that if you can offer a stable income, a stable home and are intending to stay put so your kids can stay in the same school, have the same friends etc. then it'll all count in your favour other somebody that'll be working shifts, travelling all over the country etc. If you ask me, chances are that your wife shoots herself in the foot if she tries that one and you will stand a much better chance of getting full custody.
  6. http://keychord.com/ http://chordfind.com/ You should be able to work it out between those two. Having said that, I reckon you've now got a reason to learn the notes names on the fretboard and the note names on the keyboard
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