Dude Tu Be, that sucks a whole lot. Hope everything works out for you. I think people've said it before, you might be in a better position with her being this flaky and wanting to enlist in the AF. Just make sure you get everything, EVERYTHING, written down, notarized, sealed in a f#$kin' envelope.
Edit: P.S. If you find yourself in Denver, PM me and we'll grab a beer. If the b!tch ends up going to the AFA in Colorado Springs, it's not too far away from here - about an hour.