orourke - You have pretty much described my playing experience up to this point so I understand completely.
d_dave_c - Also, same kind of story here. Got married, had a few kids, quit hanging with the band members, pretty much left guitars in their cases for 10 years. Got back into it eight years ago and as you said, "the progress is slow going". I only really get to play after the wife and kids have gone to bed. I find myself doing the same thing over and over as I do some minor pentatonic wanking to warm up. Then by the time I warm up, it is time that I need to go to bed. Very frustrating.
Keep 'em comin' guys. I find this VERY interesting if not a little therapeutic.
-Ron
BTW orourke - Thanks for the compliment on the forum. I am hoping to attract a good crowd to it.