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  1. So the soon to be ex-wife calls me up and seems one of her friends has convinced her to join the Air Force. That's all good that she wants to better herself, but here's where the problem arrives. See, we were originally gonna do a joint custody of my kids and both live here in SA. But now, if she joins they could send her ANYWHERE and she says SHE wants custody which would basically make me have to follow her wherever she has to go for Uncle Sam if I want to see my kids. This totally pisses me off because I have been the best parent I can be considering the circumstances and she has put little effort into being one for the past 6 months. Now, with a "contested" divorce here in Texas, she could win custody of our kids and I'd be a {censored}ing nomad if I want to be part of their lives. This was NOT the original plan for the divorce and she has gone and thrown a {censored}ing monkey wrench in the godamn spokes. I can't be without my kids. I won't do it. I WILL NOT be a weekend dad (or worse yet a once or twice a year dad). I'm so {censored}ing pissed right now I don't know whether to punch something or just breakdown and have a good cry. {censored}!!!! #1 - she hasn't joined yet #2 - the call was mostly to get a reaction from you and bum you out Texas family court cases generally don't end up going before the judge. The backlog is long, so a final hearing will be a year or more away. Also, this prompt you to finally agree on something at some point and just get it over with. The lawyers try to milk you for as much as they can during this process. Holdout and don't agree until you get a domicile restriction. I got one which said my ex couldn't move out of a 40 mile radius unless we both agreed. Otherwise, wait for the final hearing and present your story to the judge. It helps to write up the story so you can condense it to the most important facts. Two words: DOMICILE RESTRICTION PS: In Texas, the moms don't always get the kids (that trend has been slowly reversing). My kids lived with me for several years while they were growing up (while their mom moved around).
  2. Sometimes getting a pro-amp is part of a chain of events that leads to getting-in/starting a band.
  3. I have a '70 SuperLead with the Rich mod. Sounds great a bedroom volume... Also, sounds great with the band.
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