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    Despite all this tramp has put you through I'm surprised you haven't gotten a lawyer a long time ago.



    I really hope things work out....this is not a good situation for anyone but her.




    Dude, I've HAD a lawyer. I filed for the big D when I still lived in Forth Worth. All we were waiting on was for her to sign the papers saying it is gonna be an "uncontested" divorce, which she has informed me she has done now (8 months later:rolleyes:). So now we can get this marriage over with and get on with our lives.

  2. Well thats some good news!!! I was thinking that would probably be the deal. At the same time, what kind of woman with two small younguns wants to join the damn navy? I mean, I appreciate wanting to serve your country but...
    :freak::D




    I'm convinced she doesn't have the ability to think things through thoroughly before making decisions. It was a selfish thing to consider in the first place.

  3. This is similar to what I was going to say after reading your initial post.

    But...she could try to pull some dirt on you to win custody. Careful what you post on the internet bro, those could be used against you...especially that myspace {censored}.

    I'm speaking from experience in what happened in my divorce.

    My Ex got our daughter and lives in NM, while I have my life in AZ.

    Last time I saw my oldest daughter was at July 4th holiday...it really sucks because she's only 7 years old and I've already been without her for 3 years. I see her about 3-4 times a year and she cries for me every {censored}in' time I have to say Goodbye to her.


    Some of the stuff you post makes me feel for you bro...I've been there.

    Good luck to you, and much mojo sent!




    Funny you mention that, when she was leaving to SA every weekend from Fort Worth to party, she left her myspace account logged in and I got about 6 pages worth (printed out) of her talking about how much she was partying and saying things like, "yeah, I'm married but free of the spoils of a ball and chain".

    So yeah, I know all about that.

  4. At least she is doing whats best for the kids...
    :rolleyes:

    Doesn't she realize tearing her kids away from their father and dragging them around from town to town away from friends and such not only screws up the whole school thing, but emotionally as well?


    You better win this. And she seems like an idiot; I know LOTS of kids whose parents are divorced, the ones that don't seem to affected are the ones whose parents cooperate, the ones that seemed messed up by it are the ones whose parents pull stupid {censored} and power trips and whatnot.



    See, she thinks she IS doing what's best for the kids. That's the {censored}ed up part. She's like, "Benefits, health care" etc.

    And YES, she is VERY selfish. I honestly don't think she can win this custody battle. I have record of everytime she's actually visited the kids and it doesn't look too good. PLUS, I have written record of everytime she's "said" she was going to visit them ONLY to disappoint them by either not showing up at all or calling to say she can't make it.

  5. Well, I just talked to one of my best friends who is in the Navy. His advice was to let her join. He said to even NOT get a divorce. The AF is deploying EVERYBODY who is new to Iraq right now he told me. The government would be paying me for living expenses while she is there. But if I do get the divorce, no judge in his right mind is gonna make the kids travel the country when they could have a STEADY home, school, friends etc.

    He also told me (having known my ex) that she will not be able to hack it in AF. He said that with her mental capacity, they will break her like a twig during her training.

    She has her Masters in Business and she will go in as an officer, but she will be pushing papers in Iraq most likely. So, I'll get my kids anyway.

  6. I know enough to know that you my friend, need to talk to someone face to face, a shrink, whoever i don't give a {censored}, but involve forumites? Why? whats the point? so they can bestow you with meaningless pats on the back and "mojo"

    it is unfortunate that you are in a fix like this.

    Not HC's job to comfort you. this is an amp forum.




    What the {censored} do you know about HCAF you little bitch? You have 135 posts. And if you think this is just an amp forum then you are sadly mistaken. I have met many friends on here who will be friends for life.

    Whatever. This is the last I'm saying to you. If you wanna discuss this "face to face" then get your mommy to buy you a plane ticket to Texas and PM me when you get here.

  7. It depends if he was waring frilly underwear

    and he should be telling it to peoples face, not some forum thats available to a whole bunch of disgruntled teenager like myself.

    P.s

    do i get a spork?



    A teenager? {censored} you, you don't know {censored} about life. Talk to me when you lived a while and actually experienced some things in life. Dickhead. :rolleyes:

  8. So the soon to be ex-wife calls me up and seems one of her friends has convinced her to join the Air Force. That's all good that she wants to better herself, but here's where the problem arrives.

     

    See, we were originally gonna do a joint custody of my kids and both live here in SA. But now, if she joins they could send her ANYWHERE and she says SHE wants custody which would basically make me have to follow her wherever she has to go for Uncle Sam if I want to see my kids.

     

    This totally pisses me off because I have been the best parent I can be considering the circumstances and she has put little effort into being one for the past 6 months. Now, with a "contested" divorce here in Texas, she could win custody of our kids and I'd be a {censored}ing nomad if I want to be part of their lives.

     

    This was NOT the original plan for the divorce and she has gone and thrown a {censored}ing monkey wrench in the godamn spokes. I can't be without my kids. I won't do it. I WILL NOT be a weekend dad (or worse yet a once or twice a year dad).

     

    I'm so {censored}ing pissed right now I don't know whether to punch something or just breakdown and have a good cry. {censored}!!!!

  9. i tell ya what...all you haters out there ought to post up pics of whoever it is that you're {censored}ing. i'm betting that christina is a step or two closer to being a barbie than your old lady is.

     

     

    My wife is in my avatar. The only reason that Ricci is closer to a barbie than my wife is that they don't make "Latina Barbie." :D

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