Members Rowka Posted August 9, 2005 Members Share Posted August 9, 2005 BTW, you might want to Ask Viv. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members bassguy Posted August 9, 2005 Author Members Share Posted August 9, 2005 Originally posted by Rowka BTW, you might want to Ask Viv. LOL!!!!! that is funny... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Geddy'sFavHeadache Posted August 9, 2005 Members Share Posted August 9, 2005 Originally posted by bassguy im hoping i didnt sleep with any of them...lol you REALLY shouldn't be drinking if you can't remember:eek: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members bassguy Posted August 9, 2005 Author Members Share Posted August 9, 2005 Originally posted by Geddy'sFavHeadache you REALLY shouldn't be drinking if you can't remember:eek: thats why im stoping Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members bassgirl9 Posted August 9, 2005 Members Share Posted August 9, 2005 Originally posted by bassguy im hoping i didnt sleep with any of them...lol If you were too drunk to remember, you probably didn't. Lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members bassguy Posted August 9, 2005 Author Members Share Posted August 9, 2005 rowka this one got me crying its so funny July 6Dear VivWould stealing my 6-year-old's allowance money to buy beer make me the world's worst father? What if I share it with him? Well, it's better than your six year old stealing YOUR money to buy beer. What you did just makes you irresponsible and a slave to the hooch. Dry up,rummy. - Viv Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Thrash Jazz Posted August 9, 2005 Members Share Posted August 9, 2005 Originally posted by Rowka No.Women want to be heard and respected. Understand this and you will go far. Ultimately, yes, that is what they want. Many of them in their late teens and early-to-mid twenties don't know that that is what they want yet, though. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Geddy'sFavHeadache Posted August 9, 2005 Members Share Posted August 9, 2005 Originally posted by bassguy thats why im stoping life gets better once you stay sober for awhile. since i take meds, i can't drink... but you may need something to replace it. i sure did! and now i'm getting fatter due to eating, but good luck with your sobriety guy:) if you ever need support with it, you can email me;) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Perfessor Posted August 9, 2005 Members Share Posted August 9, 2005 ...Oh, we're just a pair of old sneekers..... I'd say spend an entire day with her, the park, a movie, dinner and just keep in touch with her. She'll forget the old boy in no time. Jump right in. Call her twice, three times a week at first. Bring her along on the fun stuff you do. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members thelurker Posted August 9, 2005 Members Share Posted August 9, 2005 +1 to quitting drinking! I quit before I turned 22. I don't miss it, and I have a pretty good time anyway! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members WillPlay4food Posted August 9, 2005 Members Share Posted August 9, 2005 Originally posted by thelurker +1 to quitting drinking! I quit before I turned 22. I don't miss it, and I have a pretty good time anyway! I didn't realize how obnoxious really drunk people could be until I played designated driver a few times. That helped me sober up. I still have a beer here and there but I'm not out there slammin' down vodka martinis and kamikazes anymore. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members bassplayer7770 Posted August 9, 2005 Members Share Posted August 9, 2005 Originally posted by bassgirl9 If you were too drunk to remember, you probably didn't. Lol I wouldn't say that. I went to an after-gig party a couple weekends ago. Two people ended up getting it on right in the middle of the floor because they thought everybody was asleep. The girl involved doesn't even remember doing it... Of course, that was the girl, but he was pretty frickin' drunk too... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members DrSquirley Posted August 9, 2005 Members Share Posted August 9, 2005 Originally posted by thelurker +1 to quitting drinking! I quit before I turned 22. I don't miss it, and I have a pretty good time anyway! +1 Too bad my girl is easily done in my peer pressure. -Alex Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members More Cowbell Posted August 9, 2005 Members Share Posted August 9, 2005 man, you think you got problems? I'm in love with my best friend. I've hit that territory with her and now there's no chance. Ask her out before it's too damn late, fool. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Jateca Posted August 9, 2005 Members Share Posted August 9, 2005 Originally posted by rx-7heaven man, you think you got problems? I'm in love with my best friend. I've hit that territory with her and now there's no chance. Ask her out before it's too damn late, fool. He's right, I'm in exactly the same situation, with the added bonus that she has until recently been going out with another good friend of mine. Why can't I be one of those obnoxious arseholes who doesn't care how anybody else feels? Ask her out, you don't want to regret something like that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members bassplayinguy Posted August 9, 2005 Members Share Posted August 9, 2005 Originally posted by Jateca Why can't I be one of those obnoxious arseholes who doesn't care how anybody else feels? because if you did that, that the ladies would swarm to you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members dogman Posted August 10, 2005 Members Share Posted August 10, 2005 Originally posted by Jateca He's right, I'm in exactly the same situation, with the added bonus that she has until recently been going out with another good friend of mine. Why can't I be one of those obnoxious arseholes who doesn't care how anybody else feels? Ask her out, you don't want to regret something like that. yep, same here, falling into the "Friend Zone" can be a real double-edge sword,Ive been there, done that too. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members bassguy Posted August 10, 2005 Author Members Share Posted August 10, 2005 yea, well me and this woman are friends, and we also work togeather, so i guess i skrewed up bigtime?...lol... anyways i think shes avoiding me now, so im gunna let things cool down for a while Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members NeonVomit Posted August 10, 2005 Members Share Posted August 10, 2005 Ask her out when you get the chance. Simple. Either you'll succeed or be shot down. Etiher way, you'll find out and be able to move on. just my 0.02. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Jateca Posted August 10, 2005 Members Share Posted August 10, 2005 Originally posted by bassplayinguy because if you did that, that the ladies would swarm to you sad but true it seems, I don't think I'll ever understand that one. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Rachel Sampson Posted August 10, 2005 Members Share Posted August 10, 2005 OK, first of all if you are not in a committed relationship than you haven't done anything wrong yet. She may have been disappointed that you were paying more attention to the other ladies at the party than her, but she can't really be mad at you. I'd sit down and talk to her tell her how you feel. Tell her that if you had any idea she had a crush on you that you wouldn't have even seen another woman in the room that night. It's all good dude. It's waaaayyy to early in the game to give up yet. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members John S. Shinal Posted August 11, 2005 Members Share Posted August 11, 2005 Originally posted by Geddy'sFavHeadache in my opinion, if she's still in love with him, and she goes out with you, there is a possibility that she would end up cheatin on you with him if you ever get with her. i wouldn't do it if i were you, but that's just me though. Wisdom, GFH. Make the move, but be clear - "Hey, I know you had a bad deal with (dude), and you still have feelings for him maybe. I know we both have a crush on each other, but I'm only into this if it's the real deal - no flaky stuff about 'oh i still love him' - he did you WRONG, and I won't put up with someone flaking on ME because (dude) was a slime and cheated. I don't treat women like that..." You've always been special, etc. etc. Then either close the deal or coolly let it hang if she's undecided. You taking charge and setting conditions on HER is going to drive her wild. It may take a little while to work on her, but it will work. Get on it, bro. Carpe booty. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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