Members bassguy Posted August 9, 2005 Members Share Posted August 9, 2005 ok, so a certain chick friend had a crush on me, and i had no idea, until saturday nite she didnt know that ive had the biggest crush on her for like a few months neways we were both at the same party on saturday nite, and i was completely smashed...more than ive ever been, and i was hanging off of every chick there, then someone told me she had a crush on me and i fellt soooo bad.... neways, i was told to tell her how i feel by her good friend, but i cant even look at her in the eyes anymore yet alone talk to her.... any advice? Ps: dont say anything about the alchol...ive given up drinking since then i have felt so bad Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members PaulyWally Posted August 9, 2005 Members Share Posted August 9, 2005 Tell her you dig her and ask her out. It ain't rocket science. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members bassguy Posted August 9, 2005 Author Members Share Posted August 9, 2005 ok other part i didnt add, but forgot too...lol her first lover cheated on her a few months ago, and they broke up but she still loves him suposedly, and thats the other reason why i dont say nething Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Fran da Man Posted August 9, 2005 Members Share Posted August 9, 2005 You know, i'll bet it takes more concentration to spell nething rather than anything Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Thrash Jazz Posted August 9, 2005 Members Share Posted August 9, 2005 Think Nike and just do it... It feels a lot better once you get it off your chest. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members bassguy Posted August 9, 2005 Author Members Share Posted August 9, 2005 yea, well im too used to typing on msn to type proper english... i dont usually think of how i spell words as i type, they just get typed Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members fishmanrod Posted August 9, 2005 Members Share Posted August 9, 2005 Why do you think you messed up if you didn't know she had any interest in you? Now you do, clean slate! Are you embarrased cause she saw you acting like a horn dog with all the other chicks? My friend, if you express sincere interest and take it slow (I assume you are interested in a relationship, not a quickie in the park), build up a little trust, it will be cool. If you are too chicken to deal with it cause it might hurt.......how much do you want to know her, not enough to take a risk? If she blows you off, done, on to the next one. You'll get over it, and probably faster than if you had just gone on wondering. If she's in to you, wooo..hoooo! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Thrash Jazz Posted August 9, 2005 Members Share Posted August 9, 2005 Originally posted by PaulyWally It ain't rocket science. Rocket science is easier to understand than women. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members B-Bottom Posted August 9, 2005 Members Share Posted August 9, 2005 Originally posted by Fran da Man You know, i'll bet it takes more concentration to spell nething rather than anything ha ha. Ask her out. It's simple. You're making it more complicated than it really is Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members bassguy Posted August 9, 2005 Author Members Share Posted August 9, 2005 thrash jazz, i agree... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Geddy'sFavHeadache Posted August 9, 2005 Members Share Posted August 9, 2005 in my opinion, if she's still in love with him, and she goes out with you, there is a possibility that she would end up cheatin on you with him if you ever get with her. i wouldn't do it if i were you, but that's just me though. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Kin Corn Karn Posted August 9, 2005 Members Share Posted August 9, 2005 Originally posted by bassguy yea, well im too used to typing on msn to type proper english...i dont usually think of how i spell words as i type, they just get typed you need to get over that if you expect anyone to take you seriously when you get old enough to be taken seriously. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members bassguy Posted August 9, 2005 Author Members Share Posted August 9, 2005 Originally posted by Geddy'sFavHeadache in my opinion, if she's still in love with him, and she goes out with you, there is a possibility that she would end up cheatin on you with him if you ever get with her. i wouldn't do it if i were you, but that's just me though. he doesnt want her back, he has a girlfriend, the same girl he cheated on her with Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members takeout Posted August 9, 2005 Members Share Posted August 9, 2005 Anyone else think that coming here for "woman help" is like going to a mechanic because "it burns when I pee"? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members bassguy Posted August 9, 2005 Author Members Share Posted August 9, 2005 i only came here, cause my friends are all working...lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ARES Posted August 9, 2005 Members Share Posted August 9, 2005 i'm still waiting to hear a problem. ask her out. if she says no, who cares. Ps: dont say anything about the alchol...ive given up drinking since then i have felt so bad haha since when, 3 days ago? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Geddy'sFavHeadache Posted August 9, 2005 Members Share Posted August 9, 2005 Originally posted by bassguy he doesnt want her back, he has a girlfriend, the same girl he cheated on her with then go for it! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Thrash Jazz Posted August 9, 2005 Members Share Posted August 9, 2005 Originally posted by takeout Anyone else think that coming here for "woman help" is like going to a mechanic because "it burns when I pee"? Yeah seriously. Ask a lead singer, they know how to get ALL the chicks! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members bassguy Posted August 9, 2005 Author Members Share Posted August 9, 2005 actually i realised i cannot physically take a drink last night. i bought a 4 pack of guniess, and i could not even get myself to open the can i feel that bad. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Geddy'sFavHeadache Posted August 9, 2005 Members Share Posted August 9, 2005 Originally posted by bassguy actually i realised i cannot physically take a drink last night.i bought a 4 pack of guniess, and i could not even get myself to open the can i feel that bad. do what i did, quit drinking all together... you don't have to worry bout doin dumb things... drinkin ain't all that great anyway Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members B-Bottom Posted August 9, 2005 Members Share Posted August 9, 2005 Originally posted by takeout Anyone else think that coming here for "woman help" is like going to a mechanic because "it burns when I pee"? Winner of the inaugural B-Bottoms hits the nail right on the head award post. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members bassgirl9 Posted August 9, 2005 Members Share Posted August 9, 2005 You didn't know she was into you. Who cares if you were hanging off of every woman there. Like you said, you were drunk. If you slept with every woman there... well then you might have a problem.... or a gift... I'm not sure which. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members bassguy Posted August 9, 2005 Author Members Share Posted August 9, 2005 Originally posted by bassgirl9 You didn't know she was into you. Who cares if you were hanging off of every woman there. Like you said, you were drunk. If you slept with every woman there... well then you might have a problem.... or a gift... I'm not sure which. im hoping i didnt sleep with any of them...lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Picker Posted August 9, 2005 Members Share Posted August 9, 2005 Maybe you could approch it that way.... Give her a call and say, "I thought you were hurting from your old BF and not looking to go out with someone else, but I would really like to go out with you...." That way, you would both explain why you ignored her before, and express your current interest. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Rowka Posted August 9, 2005 Members Share Posted August 9, 2005 Originally posted by Thrash Jazz Rocket science is easier to understand than women. No. Women want to be heard and respected. Understand this and you will go far. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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