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Members The Insomniac Posted September 5, 2005 Members Share Posted September 5, 2005 Don't we all. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members More Cowbell Posted September 5, 2005 Members Share Posted September 5, 2005 You know, i was thinking.....if there was a group discount, we should take advantage of that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Members bassplayinguy Posted September 5, 2005 Members Share Posted September 5, 2005 if you did that tom cruise would lose it on you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members shelbass Posted September 5, 2005 Members Share Posted September 5, 2005 You ok Bassius? Is this a serious post? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Members bassguy Posted September 5, 2005 Members Share Posted September 5, 2005 dude...lifes expierences are ment to make music, not stoping you from playing... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members JC Bass Posted September 5, 2005 Members Share Posted September 5, 2005 Originally posted by Bassius i'll be ok, life is hard sometimes....i dont want to play bass anymore....at least that's how i feel....i miss my kids....i miss my Significant other....i dont miss my exi miss a warm body next to me in bed...i miss my son.....so much i miss my son....damn it!! and my girls...i miss the white tiger....she is my one...man i'm {censored}ed up....fin Hang in there, man. I know how you feel. I'm fortunate to have my kids here with me this weekend, but I have the same feelings you do when they're not around. I miss my SO as well, even when my kids are here. Depression is a bitch...therapy is an option, so is medication. Go see your doctor soon and see what he/she has to say. I personally opted for meds, and they have helped a lot. I wish you the best of luck, and if you want to talk to someone who knows how you feel, PM me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members shelbass Posted September 5, 2005 Members Share Posted September 5, 2005 Dude, you sond strong enough to battle through, but I am sorry you are being crushed under it all. I couldn't imaging being apart from my son, so truly I cannot put myself in your shoes. I hope all is better for you soon. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Perfessor Posted September 5, 2005 Members Share Posted September 5, 2005 You gotta move your muscles. Playing the bass is therapy. Taking walks is very good. Make some plans, that way you'll be looking past this. When your kids are a little older they'll be able to come see you on your own, too. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ezstep Posted September 5, 2005 Members Share Posted September 5, 2005 Unfortunately, no matter what you are going through, there are many others right here on this forum who have also gone through it. The good news is that you are not alone and that you can and will get through it. The bad news is that it hurts like hell. Hang in there. Many guys here could give you pointers and horror stories of their own. Each day it hurts just a tiny bit less, but it does add up over time. EDIT: Almost forget. For ME, music is therapy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members bholder Posted September 5, 2005 Members Share Posted September 5, 2005 The people who think they don't need therapy are the ones who scare me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members greenshag Posted September 5, 2005 Members Share Posted September 5, 2005 I don't need therapy:D but seriously denson, what is up? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members philthygeezer Posted September 5, 2005 Members Share Posted September 5, 2005 Here's to life and its trials. Here's to strength in the tough times that come and go. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Markee Posted September 5, 2005 Members Share Posted September 5, 2005 You must do everything in your power to not let rage and hate into your heart. A wise old woman once told me when I was going through what you are, that although you are missing your kids now, they are adults way longer than they are children, meaning, your relationship with them has changed in dynamics only but the connection will hold. Keep contact with them any way you can. If the ex is trying to twart corresponence go thru their schools. Send B-day cards etc. thru them. Bassius, you have the best therapy in the world sitting right there in your bass case. It's a little unfortunate that you've already mastered the dern thing. The hardest part of evolving as a human being is accepting things that are out of your control with grace. Grace is the key. Look it up in the dictionary. Aspire to it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members DerekDRP Posted September 5, 2005 Members Share Posted September 5, 2005 Originally posted by Bassius i'll be ok, life is hard sometimes....i dont want to play bass anymore....at least that's how i feel....i miss my kids....i miss my Significant other....i dont miss my exi miss a warm body next to me in bed...i miss my son.....so much i miss my son....damn it!! and my girls...i miss the white tiger....she is my one...man i'm {censored}ed up....fin thank god you got people and can get people ( unlike me the uglyist dude on the forum ) and proble in the world. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members bassguy Posted September 5, 2005 Members Share Posted September 5, 2005 Originally posted by DerekDRP thankd god you got peopel and can get people ( unlike me the uglyist dude ont he forum ) and proble int he wrold. ok, so its obvious that lug is the ugliest on the forum.. someone post the kissy face pic Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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