I hate my GF...

[Dark Slide]

 

Originally posted by MadSkillzMan You hate her so much you find answers in a bass forum....

 

 

1) It was a parody thread to begin with. It just so happens that there was a little something extra behind it.

 

2) I'm not looking for answers. Just venting like everyone vents about everything else on here. That is what guys do, isn't it? Bitch about their girlfriends? I certainly know the women do it.

[MadSkillzMan]

1. Sorry, didnt know that, i normally dont read through threads like this i was just killin time. My bad

 

2. I for one dont, but i have nothing to complain about, but i know a few guys that do bitch, and i just wonder, WHY are you still with the girl if shes that annoying

 

3. If your at a college and play an instrument, its no problem to pickup another one lol

[Perfessor]

Always check out their families. The apple doesn't fall too far from the tree. I'll bet her mom acts just about the same and this young lady is just being the person she learned to be at home. I've seen this many, many times.

 

Why not leave your work at work and let her raise her family of idiots? I'd tell her kindly that it was wrong to interfere with her kids and leave it at that. I'll bet at some point she starts asking for you're input. Let her ask and do it herself. It obviously means alot to her to do it herself. Just be kind to her and tell her how hard it is for her because it really is. Going there now and then is not like living the single parent life. And if you marry a single parent don't expect this to change. She'll just act like a married single mom. Gotta roll with punches, you'll live longer.

[The Aardvark]

The first thing a guy has to understand is that ALL women are insane. This isn't PC but I believe it to be 100% true. The only difference is the degree of insanity. Try to find the least insane girl you can, then find a way do deal with the insanity that's there. If you're looking for a "normal" girl, you're always going to be disapointed.

 

 

PC disclaimer - It's possible that men are insane too, but I wouldn't know, I've never dated one.

[78pbass]

Originally posted by Dark Slide But it amazes me that as a behavioral specialist, I am a god damn genius. I find out what is wrong in homes, what is causing problems and how to fix it... and I am as successful at it as I think one can be. Yet when I notice things in HER home, she {censored}ing blows her lid.

 

Yep, you're a mechaniic with a broken-down car, a plumber with leaky pipes, etc etc.

 

DS, I've been around you on here long enough to know the whole story. I will stay the course and keep echoing my first statements on this subject. YOU NEED TO LEAVE, THIS IS NOT HEALTHY, NORMAL OR NECESSARY. seriously, I know Maine isn't the hotbed of a singles scene, but dammit man, this is no good for anyone.

 

lets talk about the next series of events....

a. you talk it out, she still resents you and doesnt respect you, hates herself all the while you watch her, from a professional's point of view, destroy her home emotionally and all of its inhabitants. You still go over there, nurture her and nothing changes, then you post some {censored} on a message board and get a {censored}pile of unsolicited advice

 

OR

 

B. you leave, you hate yourself, deal with the 6foot tall pile of feces you feel like you've become, she comes back into the picture, says nice things and ..{SEE A.}

 

 

OR

 

C. you leave, you dont tell her anything more than she needs to hear, give her the 55 or so reasons you have compiled for leaving. tell her its too {censored}ing late and to get her {censored} together with the hope she doesnt run off every man she meets, cuz none will put up iwth the {censored} you have. Sayanara, broken girl.

 

 

Sorry, brother, this has been going on for far too long.