Members Dark Slide Posted November 4, 2005 Members Posted November 4, 2005 ... yeah, so this is a parody, but at the same time it's not. You ever just want to cut loose? I do right now, I've written and erased about 3 pages worth of bull{censored} I am sick of dealing with... luckily (Or unluckily, however you want to look at it) I'm not spineless enough that I have to say it behind her back and I will just say it to her face. I'm sure she'll pop in here to check up on me, because that is what she does and if there was a big middle finger icon, I'd probably use it, because she doesn't deserve any better at this point. The sad part? as bad as the justified feelings I have about her are... they are not even have as bad as the unjustified, heartless {censored} she says and thinks about me. Sucker for punishment? Apparently I need to tattoo that across my forehead.
Members Reverend179 Posted November 4, 2005 Members Posted November 4, 2005 There, there. It'll be okay.-Sarah
Members JC Bass Posted November 4, 2005 Members Posted November 4, 2005 Ok...so if you hate your GF...why is she still your GF? That just doesn't seem to make sense to me...
Members oldivor Posted November 4, 2005 Members Posted November 4, 2005 Originally posted by JC Bass Ok...so if you hate your GF...why is she still your GF? That just doesn't seem to make sense to me... +1
Members FreestyleIntruder Posted November 4, 2005 Members Posted November 4, 2005 Originally posted by Dark Slide I'm sure she'll pop in here to check up on me, because that is what she does You shouldn't let your S.O. know about this place, it's not a good tactic Maybe write a death metal song about it or something? Or a bass mp3 (huntforArsenic perhaps)? Writing stuff down really helps to get it off your chest - actually I do that a lot here - if I'm pissed off at something I write in the 'reply' box what I *want* to say, then having visualised it I delete it and come up with something more pleasant
Members Dark Slide Posted November 4, 2005 Author Members Posted November 4, 2005 The sad part is that I (Unlike her) can't hold a grudge against her. I love her very much... but she is just so {censored}ed up in the head that I can't deal with it. She has 2 kids. That automatically makes my opinions obsolete. Apparently because I'm not the one who got pregnant due comfort {censored}ing my best friend after being dumped. Because THAT is obviously what the mature decision would be I wish I could even say that with some vengeance, because that's what she deserves, but I can't even do that. But it amazes me that as a behavioral specialist, I am a god damn genius. I find out what is wrong in homes, what is causing problems and how to fix it... and I am as successful at it as I think one can be. Yet when I notice things in HER home, she {censored}ing blows her lid. NO ONE is right when it comes to her and her kids but her. If I switched her and her kids out for any random other single mom with 2 kids and went into that home, I could find several things that I think contribute to some of the behavioral issues her kids are showing... and I would go home to my girlfriend, and I would tell her about it, and she would tell me how great that was (Though who knows what kind of {censored}ed up {censored} she'd ACTUALLY be thinking about me). But because it is her, she refuses to listen and insists on blowing up in my face over it, despite my attempts to HELP. My opinion means nothing because I don't have kids so how could I possibly know whats going on? How about because it's my {censored}ing JOB to know that you cause your sons outburts over the most minor things, not to mention the behaviors your daughter is starting to show. God forbid I try to help though. The sad part is that she did the same kind of work, and if it was anyone elses home she would see the problem and make an attempt to correct it. Yeah, I'll cut loose.. {censored} it. I'm sure she'll swing by and then freak the {censored} out after... but I don't care anymore.
Members Dark Slide Posted November 4, 2005 Author Members Posted November 4, 2005 Originally posted by JC Bass Ok...so if you hate your GF...why is she still your GF? That just doesn't seem to make sense to me... You can't help who you love, right? But I think this is a question that needs to be looked at a bit closer. I think time away from each other is probably in the works at this point.
Members 4string Posted November 4, 2005 Members Posted November 4, 2005 Simple solution Arm bar = tap out. Follow your gut, it's probably right. (or it's the chili)
Members venturawest Posted November 5, 2005 Members Posted November 5, 2005 much as i'm in agreement - if you're not happy, don't drag you and her through it any more - but i have to ask: if you know she frequents this forum, is it really appropriate to post this stuff here? do you want the HCBF to be the way she finds out about what you're doing or thinking of? just something to ponder. hope it all works out for the best.
Members Gruven Posted November 5, 2005 Members Posted November 5, 2005 Where's the Ike Turner pic when you need it? But Really: Sorry about your luck man. Been there - done that and had to let go. It wasn't good for either of us. She doesn't respect you and goes into instant defense mode when you bring up issues. That's a recipe for disaster. Someone once told me that I subconsciously want to try and fix screwed up people (i think it's because I'm a little screwed up myself, personally), and that it's not really love when that's the case. I don't know if that's the issue with you or not but it's something to think about. I hope that everything works out for the better.
Members Moody Johnny Posted November 5, 2005 Members Posted November 5, 2005 Originally posted by Dark Slide ...if there was a big middle finger icon, I'd probably use it... Jeff Walker from Carcass says 'hi!' to Dark Slide's GF:
Members Deville Posted November 5, 2005 Members Posted November 5, 2005 Dude, why are you still with her? The best part about having girlfriends as opposed to wives is the freedom to walk away. Don't like it? Get up and walk away. It's really that simple.
Members Detox Posted November 5, 2005 Members Posted November 5, 2005 Hah! You think you hate her now? Just wait till you two are married!
Members SA Rios Posted November 5, 2005 Members Posted November 5, 2005 You are weak. Its simple as that. Weak men stay with women that treat them like {censored} because deep down they are affraid that if they leave that woman they will never be able to find another.
Members Deville Posted November 5, 2005 Members Posted November 5, 2005 Originally posted by SA Rios You are weak. Its simple as that. Weak men stay with women that treat them like {censored} because deep down they are affraid that if they leave that woman they will never be able to find another. This response is very harsh, a bit cruel, and probably 100% accurate. Stand up for yourself, man! There are lots of other women out there who want to treat you like {censored}, too. Don't limit yourself to just one! This time, try to find one without kids. Leykis 101 - Never date single mothers!
Members SA Rios Posted November 5, 2005 Members Posted November 5, 2005 Sorry,I didn't mean to be cruel or harsh, but that is the case most of the time.
Members BigPigPeaches Posted November 5, 2005 Members Posted November 5, 2005 Originally posted by Gruven Where's the Ike Turner pic when you need it? Always happy to help a brother out. DS, you and I usually don't get along, but I think we've probably dated the same woman at some point. You know as well as I do that if someone doesn't think anything is wrong (even if it's staring her in the face), or if she knows something is wrong but doesn't want to admit it, she'll react that way. I would bail.
Members Dark Slide Posted November 5, 2005 Author Members Posted November 5, 2005 Originally posted by Deville This response is very harsh, a bit cruel, and probably 100% accurate.Stand up for yourself, man! There are lots of other women out there who want to treat you like {censored}, too. Don't limit yourself to just one! This time, try to find one without kids.Leykis 101 - Never date single mothers! Heh, it's not like I don't stand up for myself. I have, and I do... but obviously I am not one of those people who believes in giving up without trying, which I have been doing. I would disagree about the weak statement. I think men (And women) who give up at the first sign of trouble are the weak ones.
Members Deville Posted November 5, 2005 Members Posted November 5, 2005 Originally posted by Dark Slide I think men (And women) who give up at the first sign of trouble are the weak ones. Agreed, but you have to admit that this isn't exactly the first sign of trouble for you in this relationship...
Members SA Rios Posted November 5, 2005 Members Posted November 5, 2005 "I've written and erased about 3 pages worth of bull{censored} I am sick of dealing with..." especially if you've compiled that much {censored} that you hate about her. I'm getting married in 6 months, been dating her for 3 years. My list would be like a line or two. Obviously there will always be things that your significant other will do that pisses you off, but if the list is that long, its time to go, man. Unless of course the list of things you like about her is 6 pages long
Members MadSkillzMan Posted November 5, 2005 Members Posted November 5, 2005 You hate her so much you find answers in a bass forum....
Members BEAD Posted November 5, 2005 Members Posted November 5, 2005 Originally posted by MadSkillzMan You hate her so much you find answers in a bass forum.... Damn, that really puts it in perspective, doesn't it.
Members Rippin' Robin Posted November 5, 2005 Members Posted November 5, 2005 How do you know she thinks horrible stuff about you?
Members DanTolen Posted November 6, 2005 Members Posted November 6, 2005 Break up with her and then have an affair with her best friend if possible:thu: . No, I'm not serious don't do that.
Members Deville Posted November 6, 2005 Members Posted November 6, 2005 Originally posted by DanTolen Break up with her and then have an affair with her best friend if possible:thu: . No, I'm not serious don't do that. LOL!!
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