Members Bluescout Posted November 24, 2007 Members Share Posted November 24, 2007 She is a wonderful, kind and generous woman but there are a few things that just make us long-term incompatible. And I just don't get that woozy "in love" feeling. We had a talk and then exchanged e-mail and I told her that. I haven't heard back from her yet. I don't want to waste her time when I'm pretty damn sure she wants far more than I can do for her. But I'm still bummed out. I enjoyed spending time with her. Now I'm alone with you freaks!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members i_wanna_les_paul Posted November 24, 2007 Members Share Posted November 24, 2007 I know what you feel about the "woozy in love" feeling - I don't get that with my current girlfriend. However, I've just always felt comfortable with her. Not sure what that means, but I'll wait and see. Good luck with everything, man! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members max maroon Posted November 24, 2007 Members Share Posted November 24, 2007 ...I've only had one girl give me that woozy in love feeling, she also gave me that rip out your intestines and beat the {censored} out of you from the inside feeling too. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Bluescout Posted November 24, 2007 Author Members Share Posted November 24, 2007 This is torture. I'm trying to do the right thing and be a good guy. She is coming over in a while to talk and sounds very sad. Maybe I'll never date or have (free)sex again. That'll save me the pain. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members LanEvo Posted November 24, 2007 Members Share Posted November 24, 2007 That always sucks. But I'm still bummed out. I enjoyed spending time with her. Now I'm alone with you freaks!!! I hear you! Just be careful, don't let your feeling of loneliness push you to re-eastablish contact once it's over. Be strong! Emre Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members LanEvo Posted November 24, 2007 Members Share Posted November 24, 2007 Maybe I'll never date or have (free)sex again. That'll save me the pain.Don't do it. It's like being stuck in quicksand. The more you screw around, the deeper in the hole you'll find yourself. Emre Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members hans_the_double Posted November 24, 2007 Members Share Posted November 24, 2007 i've always felt that anything less than what you want is idle distraction at best, and a serious waste of a finite lifespan at worst. i personally think you made the right call, as tough as it is to make. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Verlian Posted November 25, 2007 Members Share Posted November 25, 2007 She is a wonderful, kind and generous woman but there are a few things that just make us long-term incompatible. And I just don't get that woozy "in love" feeling. We had a talk and then exchanged e-mail and I told her that. I haven't heard back from her yet. I don't want to waste her time when I'm pretty damn sure she wants far more than I can do for her. But I'm still bummed out. I enjoyed spending time with her. Now I'm alone with you freaks!!! Aww well, I feel for you. I hope she sees that you don't wish her any harm, or anything though, you know? And jeez... I don't know if I hate that Woozy in love feeling or not... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members jonathan_matos5 Posted November 25, 2007 Members Share Posted November 25, 2007 What are you me? Man up and get back in tha game Did i just insult myself there? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members REMUS Posted November 25, 2007 Members Share Posted November 25, 2007 What are you me? Man up and get back in tha game Did i just insult myself there? Yes, yes you did Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members hans_the_double Posted November 25, 2007 Members Share Posted November 25, 2007 is jm5 jumping the shark as we speak? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members REMUS Posted November 25, 2007 Members Share Posted November 25, 2007 Now you have put an image of him jm5'ing it into my 'ed! Damn you hans, damn you to hell. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Verlian Posted November 25, 2007 Members Share Posted November 25, 2007 What are you me? Man up and get back in tha game Did i just insult myself there? I must agree with REMUS. But yeah. You do that a lot don't you JM5? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members jonathan_matos5 Posted November 25, 2007 Members Share Posted November 25, 2007 Um no i dont know who started the rumor but its a lie. I am however a complete chump when it comes to women but im learning Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members REMUS Posted November 25, 2007 Members Share Posted November 25, 2007 Um no i dont know who started the rumor but its a lie. I am however a complete chump when it comes to women but im learning All men are chumps when it comes to this lark, some just have slightly more of a clue than others ...and others can't even be sold a clue. *glares at jm5* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Bogster Posted November 25, 2007 Members Share Posted November 25, 2007 Well, at least it didn't sound too dramatic (the relationship or the break-up), so man, it could have been much, much worse-trust me. I went through a breakup about three months ago with a girl I was very serious about, but there were some serious incompatability issues that may never have gotten resolved. Better for both of us that we got on with our lives, in the end. And what LanEvo says is true-don't let feelings of loneliness push you back into a situation that ultimately won't benefit you OR her. Keep busy. Get a second job. Hang out with pals. Read. Play bass. Play video games. Jerk off a lot. Whatever it takes to get your mind off of her... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members jonathan_matos5 Posted November 25, 2007 Members Share Posted November 25, 2007 All men are chumps when it comes to this lark, some just have slightly more of a clue than others ...and others can't even be sold a clue. *glares at jm5* I had a clue but i lost it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members t3ch Posted November 25, 2007 Members Share Posted November 25, 2007 ...I've only had one girl give me that woozy in love feeling, she also gave me that rip out your intestines and beat the {censored} out of you from the inside feeling too. I'm sad to say it, but +1. What can you do? If you're not feelin it, you're not feelin it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Bluescout Posted November 25, 2007 Author Members Share Posted November 25, 2007 I'm such a jackass..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members J. Posted November 25, 2007 Members Share Posted November 25, 2007 Was she hot? That's the important question. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members bassman1956 Posted November 25, 2007 Members Share Posted November 25, 2007 When you can't imagine life without her, that's a time to listen. If someone told me that 27 years ago, and got through, my life would be different. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members chunky-b Posted November 25, 2007 Members Share Posted November 25, 2007 I know the feeling, dude. I have not talked to the girl I have been dating for some time. I get an email asking for technical help or business related stuff, but nothing about us. I can't even seem to get her on the phone so I can officially break-up with her. I try to be an up-right kind of guy and want to do the right thing. I hold her no ill-will but we just faded a awhile back and apparently neither of us wants to put the effort into fixing things, and I don't feel comfortable moving on until we at least verbally end things. I mean, I'm no JM5 here, but is there anything wrong with just saying "It was fun, sorry it didn't work. Enjoyed it. But it's not working" and go your seperate ways? ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members t3ch Posted November 25, 2007 Members Share Posted November 25, 2007 I know the feeling, dude. I have not talked to the girl I have been dating for some time. I get an email asking for technical help or business related stuff, but nothing about us. I can't even seem to get her on the phone so I can officially break-up with her. I try to be an up-right kind of guy and want to do the right thing. I hold her no ill-will but we just faded a awhile back and apparently neither of us wants to put the effort into fixing things, and I don't feel comfortable moving on until we at least verbally end things. I mean, I'm no JM5 here, but is there anything wrong with just saying "It was fun, sorry it didn't work. Enjoyed it. But it's not working" and go your seperate ways? ? No. And it would be messed up not to. But that's just me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members JesperT Posted November 25, 2007 Members Share Posted November 25, 2007 As long as you leave because you're sure this isn't what you want. Make sure you aren't just leaving because you're afraid of it becoming more serious. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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