Members Thunderbroom Posted November 1, 2008 Members Share Posted November 1, 2008 My wife was diagnosed with breast cancer a few days after her 44th birthday; this was several weeks ago. She's been keeping it on the down low, so I've kept quiet here. We went out to dinner tonight, sans kids, and were talking about things and this place came up. She asked if I had mentioned it here, and I told her no. She asked "why not?" since this place is like a second home to me and many of you have become personal friends of mine (and ours). So, now you all know. We're doing fine here. My wife (and I) have been researching the illness and have been interviewing doctors. It looks like we're going to proceed with a suite of doctors from the University of Chicago. The treatment procedure is still being decided but radiation and likely chemotherapy are around the corner. My wife may soon be as bald as me. As a family, we're tighter than ever and confident that this is just a bump in the road. Thanks for reading. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Rob Martinez Posted November 1, 2008 Members Share Posted November 1, 2008 God bless your wife and you, I will pray for her. It can be beat, just have to be strong. Keep the faith! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Bogster Posted November 1, 2008 Members Share Posted November 1, 2008 I am sorry to hear this, TB. I will definitely keep you guys in my thoughts. I am sure it's absolutely just a bump in the road and she'll be better than fine in no time. Hang in there, man. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members SB900LE Posted November 1, 2008 Members Share Posted November 1, 2008 Prayers for you and yours, Jeff. I recall that a few weeks ago you mentioned your family was facing some serious issues. Hang in there; sounds like you are on top of things. Keep that positive perspective and beat this thing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members BeeTL Posted November 1, 2008 Members Share Posted November 1, 2008 Jeff, Although I can't claim to really know you at all, I have found there is much about you to respect and admire. I wish you and your family the absolute best during what I can only imagine will be trying times ahead. Good health and godspeed. Brad. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members jonathan_matos5 Posted November 1, 2008 Members Share Posted November 1, 2008 prayers and mojo to your wife and family look into the cancer treatment center too http://www.cancercenter.com/midwestern-hospital.cfm Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Optimus Prime Posted November 1, 2008 Members Share Posted November 1, 2008 That really sucks man. Sorry for both of you. Good luck. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members fretless Posted November 1, 2008 Members Share Posted November 1, 2008 Prayers and good vibes from our family to yours . The important thing to keep in mind is the treatments are successful and life can resume as it was after this speedbump , so go at full steam ahead and be Positive . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members 82Daion Posted November 1, 2008 Members Share Posted November 1, 2008 Jeff, your family is in my thoughts. Your wife and kids couldn't have a better person to help them through what has to be an incredibly challenging time, and I hope that you all get through it in good shape. Hopefully it is just a bump in the road. Good vibes headed your way. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Funkee1 Posted November 1, 2008 Members Share Posted November 1, 2008 Mojo and vibes going out to you! Breast cancer is totally treatable when caught early. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Thunderbroom Posted November 1, 2008 Author Members Share Posted November 1, 2008 look into the cancer treatment center toohttp://www.cancercenter.com/midwestern-hospital.cfm That place came highly recommended. My wife contacted them recently and was really turned off by the place. She's very open-minded too as we visited a local holistic-style doctorl She said the CTC came off as very slick and was immediately trying to get our insurance info. Following up with several other doctors since then, they said that the CTC tends to oversell their approach and bills for the max based on insurance without overall regard for their patients. I'm not sure about the truth in it, but regardless, my wife was turned off by them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members NoirAbattoir Posted November 1, 2008 Members Share Posted November 1, 2008 I will keep you in my prayers. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members King Kashue Posted November 1, 2008 Members Share Posted November 1, 2008 We're doing fine here. My wife (and I) have been researching the illness and have been interviewing doctors. It looks like we're going to proceed with a suite of doctors from the University of Chicago. The treatment procedure is still being decided but radiation and likely chemotherapy are around the corner. My wife may soon be as bald as me. Damn, that {censored}ing sucks. Hard to beat the U of Chi for much of anything though, so you're likely in good hands there. Also, when the time comes, your wife can use wigs to try out all the hair colors and styles she's always wondered about. It's a small silver lining on one big nasty raincloud, but I've had two friends who've gone through chemo and they both thought that aspect was actually fun (you know, in the midst of everything else sucking, and all... ) I'll keep you in my prayers (and throw a mantra your way as well, just in case ) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members chugheshc2 Posted November 1, 2008 Members Share Posted November 1, 2008 Sorry to hear Jeff; I'll keep you all in my thoughts.C> Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators Kindness Posted November 1, 2008 Moderators Share Posted November 1, 2008 this is just a bump in the road. As much as her cancer sucks, I believe this to be true. You know how to reach me if you or your family need anything. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members jonathan_matos5 Posted November 1, 2008 Members Share Posted November 1, 2008 That place came highly recommended. My wife contacted them recently and was really turned off by the place. She's very open-minded too as we visited a local holistic-style doctorl She said the CTC came off as very slick and was immediately trying to get our insurance info. Following up with several other doctors since then, they said that the CTC tends to oversell their approach and bills for the max based on insurance without overall regard for their patients. I'm not sure about the truth in it, but regardless, my wife was turned off by them. hmm maybe the one in Tulsa is ran differently. i have a friend who works for the local one and i have heard no such report. the cancer treatment center is one of the main reasons people come to Tulsa. my sentiments are still the same. best wishes to your family. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members baja85 Posted November 1, 2008 Members Share Posted November 1, 2008 Major, major mojo sent. God bless. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Thunderbroom Posted November 1, 2008 Author Members Share Posted November 1, 2008 hmm maybe the one in Tulsa is ran differently. i have a friend who works for the local one and i have heard no such report. the cancer treatment center is one of the main reasons people come to Tulsa.my sentiments are still the same. best wishes to your family. I'm sure it's a fine establishment; my wife just didn't feel comfortable when she had two phone consultations with them. Her team of doctors at the University of Chicago are a top-notch crew on the cutting edge of research and treatment. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Svi Posted November 1, 2008 Members Share Posted November 1, 2008 Good god, Jeff-I am so sorry, but you will get through this. You're in good hands. Breast cancer is highly treatable which I'm sure you know. Your family is definitely in our thoughts. Hang in there. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Bass8987 Posted November 1, 2008 Members Share Posted November 1, 2008 Sorry for this Jeff. Your family will be in my thoughts. If there is anything you need, just let us know. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members J. Posted November 1, 2008 Members Share Posted November 1, 2008 Your wife is going to give that cancer a good kick in the nuts. Best vibes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members gspointer Posted November 1, 2008 Members Share Posted November 1, 2008 I am sorry to hear that, from your postings on this board I know you have a great family and I seem to recall you spearheading somekind of a donation drive and delivering the goods a few years back. You should have plenty of karma coming your way, I will still say a prayer and send Mojo. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members The Insomniac Posted November 1, 2008 Members Share Posted November 1, 2008 Sending mojo and best wishes. It sounds like your wife is being very proactive in her treatment. I'm thinking you guys are going to come out of this stronger on the other side. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Renfield Posted November 1, 2008 Members Share Posted November 1, 2008 Prayers and mojo to your family. It's a subject close to home for me. My son's grandmother had a single mastectomy a few years ago. Both myself and his mother are volunteers in the local Breast Cancer awareness run every year. She's the local director, I pull together musical talent to rally encouragement at check points. You nailed it on the head, it's just a minor hurdle in life, no more. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members HumptyThumpty Posted November 1, 2008 Members Share Posted November 1, 2008 Wow Jeff, I'm sorry hear that. Many positive vibes to you and your family. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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