Members fusionid Posted May 28, 2006 Members Share Posted May 28, 2006 You guys think it is lame to ask someone out by email? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Seth Carmody Posted May 28, 2006 Members Share Posted May 28, 2006 Yes, unless for some reason you're not going to see her for a few days and you think she might be snatched up in the interim. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members jasonfuzz Posted May 28, 2006 Members Share Posted May 28, 2006 Yes. So much can be misunderstood through email. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members TIKILOCKEDOUT Posted May 28, 2006 Members Share Posted May 28, 2006 Originally posted by Seth Carmody snatched up Such an unfortunate turn of phrase. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members fusionid Posted May 28, 2006 Author Members Share Posted May 28, 2006 crap someone say no Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members phishmarisol Posted May 28, 2006 Members Share Posted May 28, 2006 Why do you want to ask her out by email? Are you too nervous to ask over the phone or in person? If you aren't comfortable enough to ask her on a date then are you comfortable enough with this person to be dating them? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members murch33 Posted May 28, 2006 Members Share Posted May 28, 2006 Of course not, assuming you attach a pic of your cock. Shows her you mean business. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members TIKILOCKEDOUT Posted May 28, 2006 Members Share Posted May 28, 2006 Originally posted by fusionid crap someone say no Why are you asking after the fact ... if you wanted or needed opinions you should have asked before you did the deed matey. I feel for you but I have to agree that it's always better to ask a girl out in the flesh ... but then again it depends on the girl and the current status of your association/friendship or whatever. If somehow you thought it was ok to ask her that way then maybe it will be. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members fusionid Posted May 28, 2006 Author Members Share Posted May 28, 2006 Originally posted by phishmarisol Why do you want to ask her out by email? Are you too nervous to ask over the phone or in person? If you aren't comfortable enough to ask her on a date then are you comfortable enough with this person to be dating them? hmm excellent pointlet me think that out. I think Im terrified to ask her in person. Yeah fear of rejection! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members fusionid Posted May 28, 2006 Author Members Share Posted May 28, 2006 Originally posted by TIKIROCKER Why are you asking after the fact ... if you wanted or needed opinions you should have asked before you did the deed matey. I feel for you but I have to agree that it's always better to ask a girl out in the flesh ... but then again it depends on the girl and the current status of your association/friendship or whatever. If somehow you thought it was ok to ask her that way then maybe it will be. {censored} next time Im consulting this board before making a life important desicion I mean you are right but I didnt think to ask first Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members TIKILOCKEDOUT Posted May 28, 2006 Members Share Posted May 28, 2006 Originally posted by phishmarisol If you aren't comfortable enough to ask her on a date then are you comfortable enough with this person to be dating them? That's not always true ... asking a girl out at knife point can always yeild interesting results and I always say, if your comfortable enough to carry a knife in public then your comfortable enough to hold it to a person whilst asking them out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members capnbringdown Posted May 28, 2006 Members Share Posted May 28, 2006 Yes, it's lame. Get her phone number and give her a call. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members fusionid Posted May 28, 2006 Author Members Share Posted May 28, 2006 Originally posted by capnbringdown Yes, it's lame. Get her phone number and give her a call. she had emailed me her phone number and the smart ass of me replied by asking out. I hate emails now Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members GuyaGuy Posted May 28, 2006 Members Share Posted May 28, 2006 awww...fusionid has a crush. let me say 2 things: 1. imagine getting an email date invite. kinda impersonal and creepy, right? 2. never ever take dating advice from pedalgeeks on an internet forum. ESPECIALLY not on a saturday night! all iknow is that one of my favorite girlfriends broke up with me by email. granted, we did live in different cities but it was also THE DAY BEFORE MY BIRTHDAY!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members TIKILOCKEDOUT Posted May 28, 2006 Members Share Posted May 28, 2006 Originally posted by fusionid {censored} {censored} or do not {censored}, there is no try! But seriously, the key at this point is to not over think this thing, you've got to stay cool and relax and wait for the response - the most important thing is DO NOT - I repeat DO NOT send a follow up e-mail until you have heard from her first. Then tell us what she say's and we take it from there. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members TIKILOCKEDOUT Posted May 28, 2006 Members Share Posted May 28, 2006 Originally posted by GuyaGuy all iknow is that one of my favorite girlfriends broke up with me by email. granted, we did live in different cities but it was also THE DAY BEFORE MY BIRTHDAY!! Yeah but come on man, you had it coming! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members fusionid Posted May 28, 2006 Author Members Share Posted May 28, 2006 Originally posted by GuyaGuy awww...fusionid has a crush. let me say 2 things: 1. imagine getting an email date invite. kinda impersonal and creepy, right? 2. never ever take dating advice from pedalgeeks on an internet forum. ESPECIALLY not on a saturday night! all iknow is that one of my favorite girlfriends broke up with me by email. granted, we did live in different cities but it was also THE DAY BEFORE MY BIRTHDAY!![/quote crap, sorry to hear guyaguy. I hang around this place so much it feels like a community and I feel comfortable asking this kind of thing Number 1 happened to me. A local girl asked me out after having several back and forth emails. I wasnt interested and basically let it go. It wasnt creepy, it was kind of flatering. HOwever Im a guy and older than that girl. I totally see your point Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members TIKILOCKEDOUT Posted May 28, 2006 Members Share Posted May 28, 2006 A local girl asked me out after having several back and forth emails. I wasnt interested and basically let it go. Oops but then there is the karma equation .... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members GuyaGuy Posted May 28, 2006 Members Share Posted May 28, 2006 Originally posted by fusionid Originally posted by GuyaGuy awww...fusionid has a crush. let me say 2 things: 1. imagine getting an email date invite. kinda impersonal and creepy, right? 2. never ever take dating advice from pedalgeeks on an internet forum. ESPECIALLY not on a saturday night! all iknow is that one of my favorite girlfriends broke up with me by email. granted, we did live in different cities but it was also THE DAY BEFORE MY BIRTHDAY!! [/quote crap, sorry to hear guyaguy. I hang around this place so much it feels like a community and I feel comfortable asking this kind of thing Number 1 happened to me. A local girl asked me out after having several back and forth emails. I wasnt interested and basically let it go. It wasnt creepy, it was kind of flatering. HOwever Im a guy and older than that girl. I totally see your point oh it was a couple of years ago. i'm over it now. (stupid birthday breaker-upper. ) here's your save: next time you see her or talk to her casually mention the email and say how silly it was but you'd really like to take her to ______. (fill in the blank with the event or place of your choice.) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members fusionid Posted May 28, 2006 Author Members Share Posted May 28, 2006 here is the email cool no plans for the weekend so far. What are you doing this weekend? any plans for tonite? Fusionid Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members murch33 Posted May 28, 2006 Members Share Posted May 28, 2006 Originally posted by TIKIROCKER the most important thing is DO NOT - I repeat DO NOT send a follow up e-mail until you have heard from her first. Then tell us what she say's and we take it from there. I disagree with this. Dating is like a job interview. It's perfectly acceptable to do a follow-up. I say... Keep sending those emails until they start bouncing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members fusionid Posted May 28, 2006 Author Members Share Posted May 28, 2006 Originally posted by murch33 I disagree with this. Dating is like a job interview. It's perfectly acceptable to do a follow-up. I say... Keep sending those emails until they start bouncing. LOL wow my first thread that goes for 2 pages Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members TIKILOCKEDOUT Posted May 28, 2006 Members Share Posted May 28, 2006 Originally posted by fusionid here is the email cool no plans for the weekend so far. What are you doing this weekend? any plans for tonite? Fusionid That's tame man and very inocuous ... sit back and wait for the reply and play it cool. If she's a cool girl she will see it for what it is and follow up in like kind if she has any interest in getting together anyway - if she never did then you've lost nothing. It's all cool. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members TIKILOCKEDOUT Posted May 28, 2006 Members Share Posted May 28, 2006 Originally posted by murch33 I disagree with this. Dating is like a job interview. It's perfectly acceptable to do a follow-up.I say... Keep sending those emails until they start bouncing. Yeah but that only applies if your the knife carrying type as I stated above. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members fusionid Posted May 28, 2006 Author Members Share Posted May 28, 2006 Originally posted by TIKIROCKER That's tame man and very inocuous ... sit back and wait for the reply and play it coil. If she's a coll girl she will see it for what it is and follow up in like kind of she has any interest in getting together anyway - if she never did then you've lost nothing. It's all cool. coolmuch releaved now Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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