Members mrweems Posted December 26, 2006 Members Share Posted December 26, 2006 What are you thoughts on this.. Does it make things slightly harder to accomodate her..? No more farting pranks.. Vulger language of taking {censored}s.. random things you normally don't talk about around a female.. and then if your on tour and its that "time" man.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members passing ghost Posted December 26, 2006 Members Share Posted December 26, 2006 i've played with girlies that are badder than me:eek: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members therhodeo Posted December 26, 2006 Members Share Posted December 26, 2006 I've played with a girl singer before and you'd be surprised how much easier it is for her to get the drummer and bass player to shut up. When she says get serious they do. I wish I could do that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members mrweems Posted December 26, 2006 Author Members Share Posted December 26, 2006 Originally posted by passing ghost i've played with girlies that wre badder than me:eek: dude.. thats sick. i can't stand it when women talk about stuff that isnt "pretty thoughts" makes me sickly unattracted to the entire species of women.. I'm talking to a girl right now. Grew up with 2 brothers and a single mother, and she refers to "taking slams" or a friend asking her to go into the bathroom with her while they "take a slam" and i'm just like {censored}ING HELL I CAN'T TAKE THIS.. women like that probably "poot" on the first date.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members GuyaGuy Posted December 26, 2006 Members Share Posted December 26, 2006 Originally posted by mrweems makes me sickly unattracted to the entire species of women.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members mrweems Posted December 26, 2006 Author Members Share Posted December 26, 2006 Originally posted by GuyaGuy yea yea guyaguy i see ya.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members passing ghost Posted December 26, 2006 Members Share Posted December 26, 2006 Originally posted by mrweems dude.. thats sick. i can't stand it when women talk about stuff that isnt "pretty thoughts" makes me sickly unattracted to the entire species of women.. I'm talking to a girl right now. Grew up with 2 brothers and a single mother, and she refers to "taking slams" or a friend asking her to go into the bathroom with her while they "take a slam" and i'm just like {censored}ING HELL I CAN'T TAKE THIS.. women like that probably "poot" on the first date.. take a slam huh Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members SpectralJulian Posted December 26, 2006 Members Share Posted December 26, 2006 I've been in a band or two that had a girl in it before. I just keep telling dirty jokes and stuff, I don't care. Now, if I was attracted to them, the situation would be completely different. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members arexjay Posted December 26, 2006 Members Share Posted December 26, 2006 The only problem I had with the girl in my old band was that she lacked motivation. She would rather go ice skating or see a {censored}ty movie than practice. We never stopped with the dirty jokes and constant innuendo, though. She was a changed girl after that band, I tell you... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members mrweems Posted December 26, 2006 Author Members Share Posted December 26, 2006 Originally posted by passing ghost take a slam huh yea it is seriously one of THE biggest turnoffs i have ever had.. dear god.. its disgusting.. mahybe after 25 years of marriage.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members passing ghost Posted December 26, 2006 Members Share Posted December 26, 2006 once i was in a band with my girlfriendno band no girl Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members cum2roll Posted December 26, 2006 Members Share Posted December 26, 2006 What are your motives? If the girl can play, who cares if she toots (who the hell says 'toot'?)? I welcome any like-minded, talented musician to my band. If you really want to play professionally, and you know of the tight quarters, the farts, etc,,then you already knew that the situation wouldn't work for you! It appears you may have some sexual leanings that you don't want to admit to yourself, but want someone to tell you. OK, I'd say you have some bi-curious issues. I;m not trying to be a jerk, I'm being honest. Oh well, that doesn't mean your going to do anything about it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members mrweems Posted December 26, 2006 Author Members Share Posted December 26, 2006 Originally posted by cum2roll What are your motives? If the girl can play, who cares if she toots (who the hell says 'toot'?)?I welcome any like-minded, talented musician to my band. If you really want to play professionally, and you know of the tight quarters, the farts, etc,,then you already knew that the situation wouldn't work for you!It appears you may have some sexual leanings that you don't want to admit to yourself, but want someone to tell you.OK, I'd say you have some bi-curious issues. I;m not trying to be a jerk, I'm being honest. Oh well, that doesn't mean your going to do anything about it. no i agree with that.. i have a lot of personal overcomings to get over.. and a few of those could be used in relationships as well. I've just never been put in that situation in the "work scene" though.. I don't have to many gross girl friends.. Most girls i'm friends with are spoiled, keep themselves nice and neat, and no problems.. but i'd be willing to change if she was good on the bass.. Thats the position we are looking for.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members capnbringdown Posted December 26, 2006 Members Share Posted December 26, 2006 I don't accomadate anyone, which is probably why most guys won't play with me either.If she really can't handle it, maybe she shouldn't be in the band instead of expecting me to change.Besides, I'm more like this guy... Originally posted by therhodeo I've played with a girl singer before and you'd be surprised how much easier it is for her to get the drummer and bass player to shut up. When she says get serious they do. I wish I could do that. I didn't have that problem the last time I was in a band. The gun always seemed to get their attention. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members krish Posted December 26, 2006 Members Share Posted December 26, 2006 We treat the girl singer in our band just like one of the lads. We even make obscenely sexist jokes (well I do anyway), around her or even directed at her and she just loves it. In fact I've never had to be careful about saying anything around her. When first looking at her you wouldn't think she was into the rock n roll scene, she seems more like a "girly" girl, but she's totally passionate about her singing and loves the music. Its rare to find someone (boy or girl) you get along with so easily who totally loves the music, without having to change the way you act and watch what you say around. I guess what I'm trying to say is, every girl is different so if it doesnt work out first time with a girl in the band don't think it never will. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members seifukusha Posted December 26, 2006 Members Share Posted December 26, 2006 ive had girls in my bands and i played drums for an all girls band. its all good. i can be a gentleman. i dont drink when i play so i guess im too serious anyway! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members stereotypy Posted December 26, 2006 Members Share Posted December 26, 2006 well my singer is female and she has the mojo. plays piano and the guitar, too... but her main thing is it to sing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members CicadaSilence Posted December 26, 2006 Members Share Posted December 26, 2006 I've never been in a viable band with a female. Either they can't play, overplay, or are completely off their {censored}ing rocker. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members bierball Posted December 26, 2006 Members Share Posted December 26, 2006 The coverband I'm in has a female vocalist. She is great, very ambitious and always pushing us guys to rehearse more and coming up with new songs to learn. Another nice aspect is that you get to play songs you have never even considered before. Makes the repertoire fresh and more exciting. BUT there is one dark cloud on the horizon... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Gloryboy1981 Posted December 26, 2006 Members Share Posted December 26, 2006 If I ever did end up joining a band with a woman, I would probably behave myself until I knew how cool she was. If she joined my band, I would tell her upfront that she would receive no special treatment. I'm not a vulgar guy, but if a dirty joke, sexist remark, burp, or fart came out, I wouldn't care. She's not going to screw up my project. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members bieke Posted December 26, 2006 Members Share Posted December 26, 2006 I'm in a band with 2 lesbians Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Roy Brooks Posted December 26, 2006 Members Share Posted December 26, 2006 If she just sings and doesn't play an instrument, no unless she is really {censored}ing good and has good taste in music too. No karaoke types on my watch. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Heineken Posted December 26, 2006 Members Share Posted December 26, 2006 Originally posted by bieke I'm in a band with 2 lesbians Either links or pics dammit!!! (unless they're real dikes and both look like marines) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members tocs100 Posted December 26, 2006 Members Share Posted December 26, 2006 Originally posted by mrweems ....I'm talking to a girl right now. Grew up with 2 brothers and a single mother, and she refers to "taking slams" or a friend asking her to go into the bathroom with her while they "take a slam" and i'm just like {censored}ING HELL I CAN'T TAKE THIS.... Sounds like the "battle {censored}s" scene from Harold and Kumar Go to White Castle. That scene's so messed-up that you just might laugh your way out of your repulsion! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members guybrush Posted December 26, 2006 Members Share Posted December 26, 2006 I think that, regardless of gender issues, farting in a small studio is generally frowned upon. That being said, the bassist in band is a girl. My ex-girlfriend, for that matter, and the other guitarists' current girlfriend (and he's one of my best friends, too). Fun stuff. She's cool, but she can't really play - we just teach her the root notes and she plays them. She's just there 'cause we haven't found anyone else. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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