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After playing the Rocker 30 head today, I am seriously wanting an Orange Rocker(verb). My wife wants to have a baby. She said if we can start trying in June, I can buy ANYTHING Orange I want.

 

Does your spouse do this kind of stuff to you? Do you give in? I am very tempted to cave. I like practicing making babies. :D I'm just not sure about the real thing. I'm 27, she's 24, and she wants our kid (singular, one only!) to know our grandparents. So she wants to have one soon.

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All women do that. If they say they don't they're full of {censored}. My wife "bought" me over $5000 in guitar equipment in the 3 years we've been married but ended up with over $10,000 in jewlery and me a huge credit debt. I also get bribed for booty all the time..."I'll give you some if you let me buy those earing I wanted." One day I said "How about I just start paying for it in cash so I don't have any more credit card bills?" She didn't like that at all...then I said "Well you act like a hooker and I'll treat you like one..."

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Originally posted by cloudnine

That's lame, dude. Divorce that whore.
:(

 

Don't whores sleep with many men for money? My wife sleeps with just me for free. In fact, me getting an amp for making a baby would make me a man-whore, no?

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Originally posted by 65_289



Don't whores sleep with many men for money? My wife sleeps with just me for free. In fact, me getting an amp for making a baby would make me a man-whore, no?

 

Not you, though I still think it's silly, have kids if you want em.

 

I was talkin' to ss464. :(

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Originally posted by 65_289

After playing the Rocker 30 head today, I am seriously wanting an Orange Rocker(verb). My wife wants to have a baby. She said if we can start trying in June, I can buy ANYTHING Orange I want.


Does your spouse do this kind of stuff to you? Do you give in? I am very tempted to cave. I like practicing making babies.
:D
I'm just not sure about the real thing. I'm 27, she's 24, and she wants our kid (singular, one only!) to know our grandparents. So she wants to have one soon.

 

Sounds like a great deal to me if you are ready for the joy and responsibility that a child brings into your life.

 

But I'd hold out for a stack AND a guitar :D

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Originally posted by 65_289



Oh, my bad.


ss464, that does sound pretty messed up. Is it getting any better?

 

 

NO...in fact it hit it's lowest point Christmas Eve...she acted like an asshole at my parents house because I picked up my nephew's guitar my mom bought him TO TUNE IT FOR HIM! I didn't even get it out of the case and she started throwing a {censored}ing fit and left with the kids (I only live 300ft from my parents) Then she called 3 times talking {censored} and I told my mom I would be back since we were about to start a game of Texas Hold em...I walked down the street and didn't even get in my yard when the bitch started screaming at me...I didn't say a word until she said "You always ruin my christmas..." I said "So you showing your ass at MY parents house is ruining YOUR christmas?" She shoved me and started screaming about how my clothes would be in the yard when I got back from playing card and all this bull{censored} so I just said "Well how about you spend the night in jail to think about putting your hands on me?" and I started to walk into the house to call the police. She grabbed my shirt from behind and litterally ripped it off me. I opened the outer door and she ran right into it with my hand in it. I tried to pull the door open and she punched me right in the eye. I shoved her back and got my hand out of the door and she punched me in the mouth...at this point I had enough and I grabbed her by the shirt and slammed her into the porch post and clocked her in the side of the head...she dropped like a rock and I was so pissed I just lifted her up by her shirt and was about to kick her ass when her mother stepped out the door and said, in a calm voice "Neal, you don't want to do that..." Not like she was threatening me but like she was saying that I really didn't have it in my heart to be hitting my wife...and she was right. I'm not that kind of person and my family isn't that kind of people either. I married the wrong kind of person PERIOD. Her mother isn't even like that and didn't show one bit of anger toward me at all. She knew I was pushed to the edge and just went over. I handed her to her mother and walked inside to call the police but my wife grabbed the phone before me because I went to the charger looking for it and she knew where it was. She BEGGED me not to call the police and not to divorce her...I told her flat out "I don't love you." and I told her I would let her stay until after tax season and then it's over. She said she would make me fall in love with her again and I said "You can do what you want but I won't fall in love with you...I don't even know who the {censored} you are..." she said something about at least giving her sex when she needs it and I said "Sure...I don't have to love you to {censored} you...hell I don't even have to like you for that..."

 

I have {censored}ed my life up with this girl for far too long. She's abusive to me in every way and I've managed to NOT hit her in the 3 years we've been married but she finally pushed me too far. Nobody should stay with someone that's abusive. When she was begging me to not leave her she sounded just like the stereotype male abuser "I'll change...It'll never happen again...I really love you and I didn't mean to hit you..." I said "what would you say if I was one of your female friends and their husband beat their ass? I know what you'd say...GET THE {censored} OUT is what you'd say. How many times do you think someone should be abused before they stopped teh abuse?"

 

I really hate my life at the moment...

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Originally posted by 65_289

After playing the Rocker 30 head today, I am seriously wanting an Orange Rocker(verb). My wife wants to have a baby. She said if we can start trying in June, I can buy ANYTHING Orange I want.


Does your spouse do this kind of stuff to you? Do you give in? I am very tempted to cave. I like practicing making babies.
:D
I'm just not sure about the real thing. I'm 27, she's 24, and she wants our kid (singular, one only!) to know our grandparents. So she wants to have one soon.

 

So let me get this straight... Your wife wants to have sex with you... repeatedly AND buy you an Orange?

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Originally posted by vlad



So let me get this straight... Your wife wants to have sex with you... repeatedly AND buy you an Orange?

 

Yeah, it's a rough life. :D

 

And to ss464, I'm sorry dude, that is just straight {censored}ed up. I hate to hear about {censored} like that. :(

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I really hate this {censored}...I'm sure that sounded like some trailer park drama but I assure you that's not at ALL the way I am or my family is...If we didnt' have 2 kids it would have been over a long time ago. That's the kicker...I couldn't take them from her before and NOW I have cause to. She knows this and will be watching how she acts for a while but like always she'll be back to her old tricks within a week...she always is. I make really good money...both my parents make really really good money and her mother, and her grandpa on her dad's side own their own business and make really good money. Her mom lives in a 3 story house in a really high class neighborhood and ownes several other houses and only owes on the one she lives in now. I just think she was spoiled because she was an only child and only grand child and her grandparents gave in to EVERYTHING she wanted...I was the youngest of 3 and it was hard until I was a teen so I never ask for anything because I'm not used to there being anything to have...put it this way...I'm 26 and the Gamecube was the first videogame I ever owned.

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Originally posted by ss454

I really hate this {censored}...I'm sure that sounded like some trailer park drama but I assure you that's not at ALL the way I am or my family is...If we didnt' have 2 kids it would have been over a long time ago. That's the kicker...I couldn't take them from her before and NOW I have cause to. She knows this and will be watching how she acts for a while but like always she'll be back to her old tricks within a week...she always is. I make really good money...both my parents make really really good money and her mother, and her grandpa on her dad's side own their own business and make really good money. Her mom lives in a 3 story house in a really high class neighborhood and ownes several other houses and only owes on the one she lives in now. I just think she was spoiled because she was an only child and only grand child and her grandparents gave in to EVERYTHING she wanted...I was the youngest of 3 and it was hard until I was a teen so I never ask for anything because I'm not used to there being anything to have...put it this way...I'm 26 and the Gamecube was the first videogame I ever owned.

 

 

Dude... is this chick in therapy? Whether you end up leaving or not, make sure she gets some help... she WILL be involved in your kids lives forever...

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Originally posted by Guvnor



Dude... is this chick in therapy? Whether you end up leaving or not, make sure she gets some help... she WILL be involved in your kids lives forever...

 

 

I've been trying for 3 years...she will never take the pills they give her. It makes me sad to think that my kids will have her as a mom FOREVER :(

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Originally posted by cloudnine

How was your Xmas, Mariner?


Your story still touches me when I see you around here posting.


Hope all is well.

 

 

Hey Cloud, thanks for asking. It's not been as hard as it might have been, although there've been moments when I start to think about things..... and have to stop.

 

That's just how it is.

 

But there have been high points too.

 

We have a bunch of teens come round to our place regularly now, inc my daughter's BF. Which leads me to ss454.

 

One of my daughter's close friends has a seriously nutty mother. His family live in a tiny village, but she's literally thrown him out several times. There is nowhere to go, and he's got a pile of clothes at a friend's house. At one time we thought we would have his sister living with us for the same reason. I mention this because the kid's father doesn't really get involved - I think she's worn him down, and he needs her income for the family to stay solvent.

 

Your situation isn't unique, but it's darned painful. If you can forgive her then you'll help both yourself and your kids. That doesn't mean you have to stay together, but if you can forgive then that will release you from carrying anger and mis-trust forward into whatever happens in the future.

 

I'm really sorry to hear what's happened to you, and hope you can resolve it. I'll try to remember and pray for you guys.

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Originally posted by 65_289

After playing the Rocker 30 head today, I am seriously wanting an Orange Rocker(verb). My wife wants to have a baby. She said if we can start trying in June, I can buy ANYTHING Orange I want.


Does your spouse do this kind of stuff to you? Do you give in? I am very tempted to cave. I like practicing making babies.
:D
I'm just not sure about the real thing. I'm 27, she's 24, and she wants our kid (singular, one only!) to know our grandparents. So she wants to have one soon.

I think that is the stupidest scenario I have ever seen on this forum. Have a baby only if you are damn sure that is what you want to do and you want to raise one the best you possibly can. Are you serious? Geez man, I can't believe that someone would consider fathering a child so they could buy an amp... Buy the {censored}ing amp if you want it, or does your wife control what you do and when you do it?

 

Unreal... :rolleyes:

 

Steve

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Originally posted by ss454

All women do that. If they say they don't they're full of {censored}. My wife "bought" me over $5000 in guitar equipment in the 3 years we've been married but ended up with over $10,000 in jewlery and me a huge credit debt. I also get bribed for booty all the time..."I'll give you some if you let me buy those earing I wanted." One day I said "How about I just start paying for it in cash so I don't have any more credit card bills?" She didn't like that at all...then I said "Well you act like a hooker and I'll treat you like one..."

 

 

You need a friggin' divorce. Geez man - the day my wife tells me I can have some lovin' if I buy her something we are done... isn't it supposed to be fun for both of you?

 

Steve

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gee dude (ss454)...i tend to avoid posting in the threads that arent directly guitar/amp related....but i just gotta wish you luck with that situation....thats ROUGH!!

 

i hope it all works out for the best

 

 

ryan

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