Members boosh Posted June 1, 2007 Members Share Posted June 1, 2007 Wednesday evening I picked up a pair of Yamaha HS80M monitors Rizzo bought me. She saved up spare change for almost a year to get me these and I didn't know she did that. I installed them in my little studio and because it was very late when I finished I thought,...well tomorrow I'm gonna try them out. Thursday morning at 6:30 AM Rizzo's dad called on the phone to tell us Rizzo's mum died in his arms,...she was diagnosed with several types of cancer 6 weeks ago. Today I walked into my studio and the first Job I had to do was to mix a CD with our mum's favorite music to be played at the funeral. Here I was,...mixing and picking out song's for Rizzo's mum funeral on the brand new Monitors she bought me ,.... 5 years ago Rizzo's brother passed away. He was physically and mentally handicapped and died at age 38. I decided to pick the same songs that were played at his funeral. I know Mum liked to play the CD I made her when she was alone. Next monday she'll be burried at the spot he lays to rest so they'll be together forever. The hardest thing I ever did in my life,......... Mum,.... I love you! Now go and take care of your son again,.... Booshy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Rudolf von Hagenwil Posted June 1, 2007 Members Share Posted June 1, 2007 Booshy, When someone in your family or in your life dies, it rips a huge hole in your heart. Your wife needs now more consolation then ever before. Take care of your beloved, and may make the little voyage you planned soon Angelo . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members blue2blue Posted June 1, 2007 Members Share Posted June 1, 2007 My heart's with you guys. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phil O'Keefe Posted June 1, 2007 Share Posted June 1, 2007 My condolences Boosh. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members temnov Posted June 1, 2007 Members Share Posted June 1, 2007 I'm sorry, Booshy. Take care of Rizzo, she needs you as never before. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gus Lozada Posted June 2, 2007 Share Posted June 2, 2007 Send lots of love from your friends to Rizzo. She is a great girl.You... are a great guy, too. My condolences. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members deanmass Posted June 2, 2007 Members Share Posted June 2, 2007 ---speechless--- I am so sorry, Boosh. My thoughts and spirit are with you and your family.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators justcrash Posted June 2, 2007 Moderators Share Posted June 2, 2007 I am so sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators Lee Knight Posted June 2, 2007 Moderators Share Posted June 2, 2007 Totally speechless. I found the post you made regarding the speakers touching and now... you made very good use of them first off. Your love for Rizzo shows deeply man. You have something special with her and it reminds me of what is important. I'm so sorry. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members philbo Posted June 2, 2007 Members Share Posted June 2, 2007 Boosh, I'm so sorry to hear this - - just be there for Rizzo.... It's so hard to lose family like that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members UstadKhanAli Posted June 2, 2007 Members Share Posted June 2, 2007 What others said. You're a good guy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Meriphew Posted June 2, 2007 Members Share Posted June 2, 2007 Sorry for your loss Boosh. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members franknputer Posted June 2, 2007 Members Share Posted June 2, 2007 My condolences also, boosh. You & Rizzo are lucky to have each other. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members jackpine Posted June 2, 2007 Members Share Posted June 2, 2007 So sorry for you family's loss , Booshy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Bruce Swedien Posted June 2, 2007 Members Share Posted June 2, 2007 Wednesday evening I picked up a pair of Yamaha HS80M monitors Rizzo bought me. She saved up spare change for almost a year to get me these and I didn't know she did that.I installed them in my little studio and because it was very late when I finished I thought,...well tomorrow I'm gonna try them out.Thursday morning at 6:30 AM Rizzo's dad called on the phone to tell us Rizzo's mum died in his arms,...she was diagnosed with several types of cancer 6 weeks ago.Today I walked into my studio and the first Job I had to do was to mix a CD with our mum's favorite music to be played at the funeral.Here I was,...mixing and picking out song's for Rizzo's mum funeral on the brand new Monitors she bought me ,....5 years ago Rizzo's brother passed away. He was physically and mentally handicapped and died at age 38.I decided to pick the same songs that were played at his funeral. I know Mum liked to play the CD I made her when she was alone.Next monday she'll be burried at the spot he lays to rest so they'll be together forever.The hardest thing I ever did in my life,.........Mum,.... I love you! Now go and take care of your son again,....Booshy Booshi........ You are in our thoughts today. Rizzo and her Dad need your love and care. Somehow I know that Rizzo knows that she is very fortunate to have you by her side. Love and kisses..... Bruce and Bea Swedien Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members the stranger Posted June 2, 2007 Members Share Posted June 2, 2007 Best wishes in your time of sorrow. I like to think that you didn't lose a loved one, you just needed another guardian angel. She may have passed from the physical realm, but her spirit will always live in the hearts of those who love her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members spokenward Posted June 2, 2007 Members Share Posted June 2, 2007 I am so sorry for your loss. I know that nothing makes any sense now, but it really is good to know that she found some comfort in the CD that you made. These connections are all that we have for sure. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Tedster Posted June 2, 2007 Members Share Posted June 2, 2007 Boosh, bro... Get yourself a big box of kleenex, mix the {censored} out of that stuff, and when you need to, grab another kleenex and let yourself go. And when you get it out of your system, you'll know that somewhere, in the next life, if you believe in that sort of thing or even if you don't...some part of her will hear what you've done for her and she'll be smiling. Recently I put up a tribute myspace page for my oldest daughter, who passed away in '98. Doing that required quite a bit of kleenex...and I didn't feel the least bit guilty... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members the stranger Posted June 2, 2007 Members Share Posted June 2, 2007 Recently I put up a tribute myspace page for my oldest daughter, who passed away in '98. Doing that required quite a bit of kleenex...and I didn't feel the least bit guilty... Cool. Sounds nice. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Magpel Posted June 2, 2007 Members Share Posted June 2, 2007 Ditto what everybody else said, Boosh. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Super 8 Posted June 2, 2007 Members Share Posted June 2, 2007 Somehow I know that Rizzo knows that she is very fortunate to have you by her side. Definitely... My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family, Boosh.Take care and love your family as much as you can. You're a good man. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members boosh Posted June 2, 2007 Author Members Share Posted June 2, 2007 You guys,......... Thanks sooooo much!!!! Every time I hear people complain about mothers in law,...about how they hate her or dispide her,.... My mum,... yeah She was my mum,..I loved her like my mum and will always love her that way, was different. I saw her at least 4 times a week and she couldn't stop huggin and touching me from the day we met. She was my mum,....my secret lover,....I told her,...if there wasn't a 30 years age gap I'd run off with her. My Mummie,.... Maartje,....I love you till God dies,.... Don't be afraid,..there's loads of people that support us( like the peeps onhere.thanks guys!!!!). Folks my words don't seem to be coherent,.. I'm sorry,... for that,... I'm very lost now. Booshy Thanks Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Kendrix Posted June 3, 2007 Members Share Posted June 3, 2007 So sorry to hear of this Booshie.The SSS crowd is thinking of you and Rizzo.You are really lucky to have had such a good relationship with your mom-in-law. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Rubber Lizard Posted June 3, 2007 Members Share Posted June 3, 2007 Boosh, You don't know me, for sure. But you have been a part of my life for a few years now, and I must say this. You have a personality that shines all the way across the ocean. That's going to help your family a lot as they work through this loss. -ml Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members daklander Posted June 3, 2007 Members Share Posted June 3, 2007 Boosh, our deepest condolences. We lost our daughter-in-law yesterday, the mother of our grandson. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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