Hey Lava. I have a 15 month old son and I built my recording studio into my house like most mix engineers are now doing these days. My full-time job is mixing and producing records for other people. Probably 90% of my time is spent mixing records. I have had zero problems with my son sleeping. Because of not wanting to mess with some building codes, the studio really has no isolation between the ceiling and the floor above, part of which is his bedroom. I actually very early on tried to see if he'd sleep in the isolation booth, but he pretty much hates that room so I gave up. But the music has absolutely zero effect on him taking naps (although sometimes I feel guilty that the nanny is stuck listening to the same exact song over and over and over and over....). Granted, it's been this way since the day he was born so perhaps he's just used to it.
But anyway, my point is that perhaps you are over-reacting to a perception that there's a problem. Your kids can probably sleep through it, just like kids in apartments on busy streets sleep through the 6 lanes of traffic.
One other consideration: How loud are you actually mixing? I might crank it up to 90dB early on, and occasionally for a spot check, but most of my time mixing is around 80 to 85dB and the last third of mixing is typically 70 - 80dB, again with only very brief moments where I crank it up. I'm mixing on 8" speakers and lots of pop and urban records with plenty of bass. But if you are one of those crazies that likes to go deaf and mixes at earsplitting levels (not good for your ear health...) then I could see it being a bigger problem.
Chris 'Von Pimpenstein' Carter
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