
Originally Posted by
guido61
I get what you're saying about the economy and such, but odds are pretty good that regardless of what path this girl's life took, she'd probably not still be hanging out front and center for some band in a bar at age 28.
Dave... you really don't know the NY/NJ band scene very well. Woman do not have an expiration date when it comes to cover bands... well at least until menopause hits. LOL The rule is woman remain up front and center until they die or get married. LOL...
Seriously... we have women all ages who stand in front and make complete fools of themselves. Most are over 30. There's a different dynamic here in the east. Age is not that much of a barrier. People don't age out of the singles/party scene as much as they 'opt' out. Most couples don't marry until their early to mid 30's. Those that do are usually seperated and divorced by the same time. So the woman on the scene (and there are alot of them) are usually #1- single, unattached with no long term romantic prospects. #2- Mom's who's kids are of baby sitting age (usually 8-15) who leave their tired husbands at home, pile in a mini van, get drunk on red wine and sing along with the band all night. It's why we exist really.
All jokes aside... my point does have some legs. The girl I spoke about has friends that still come out to see us... they are teachers, working professionally, living independently and working for the weekend. The girl working the dinner shift at The Hut is stuck there until 11pm, while her friends are sipping cosmo's at 7pm for 'girls night'. My point is there's a big portion of people in their late 20's who haven't moved forward. It's one thing if you are successfully employed and using the weekends to hold onto youth. It's another feeling altogether if you haven't left 'dorm life' and you're friends are moving forward but you are not. You tend to want to stay home, pull a blanket over your head and watch Lifetime movies surrounded by cats. (I'm not speaking from experience... just pure speculation

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