Mayer is a Lone Wolf, an Alpha Male at the moment to boot (although I'm not particularly a fan). Face the facts, many of us would love to be in his shoes at the pinnacle of success. He has adoration from millions of fans, and a truly elite talent for picking up A-level {censored}----he's much better at that then he is at music. I think a big part of it is the fact that is is an asshole. Any man that has lived long enough to be a man knows that many women secretly want to {censored} the guy that is the biggest asshole to them since he's a challenge and often marry them as well. Then for the 2nd marriage when their looks have already faded, they go for the nice guy. Quite honestly, I think people would be far less interested in Mayer if wasn't constantly bedding down celebrity chicks. Same for George Clooney, who is vastly better at picking up {censored} than he is at acting. The most puzzling one of all is clearly the disgusting, pear shaped doughboy Adam Duritz of Counting Crows being able to pick up women at least 3 leagues above him (sucks being a rock star, eh?). But worrying about it or being jealous won't change your life, except perhaps for making you have more pronouced worry lines on your face and higher blood pressure. So {censored} it, let 'em have their fun. I know I sure as {censored} would if I was in their position. Conclusion: Mayer is a rich, famous asshole. No wonder women can't stay away. But his arrogance is uncool and will continue to bite him in the ass.