I play music for fun. If I find myself in a situation that is not or is no longer fun I remove myself from that situation.
Just for comparison, when I'm at work and I'm in a situation that is not fun, I am obligated to deal with it all the same. The fact that I am compensated financially for that makes it worth the effort.
Music is fun. I don't make any money playing it but I don't care because I'm enjoying myself. Just like somebody going fishing, or playing golf on the weekend, I grab a LP or a Strat and start ripping.