if she had her wits about her about playing mean on custody, and had a savvy attorney advising her, which is what my wife would do ... she would blindside you with this. Just run you over with a Mack truck. Of course, she could just be a mentally unstable somewhat foolish person. I read all this out of curiosity for the troll ... this is a lot of too much drama for me usually. However, with a sister-in-law in a divorce practice - not in Texas though - here is my take ... You are not playing enough hardball. Period. I don't know what sort of documentation you have, but if you don't have an investigator, it may be money well spent. I personally may engage her in a conversation concerning her enlistment, to get a name/location of the recruiter. I then would do my best to elicit as much information about her from the recruiter as possible. I may even try to get a court order to make them provide her enlistment forms. Discredit her every possible chance you can. Let me tell you, from what I can see ... you are not mean enough to win, no matter how much better it would be for your children. And you. Having said that, good luck to you - sincerely. I don't wish bad things happening to parents and their children, especially good parents - the world doesn;t have enough of those.