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Benefits of Bonding


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I believe it. About three years ago when the music web sites were blowing out the Alvarez MD-60 and MD-80 guitars, I bought one of the MD-80s. All solid woods, mahogany and Englemann spruce....played like butter......sounded great.......everybody I knew loved it......but, for some reason I never bonded with it. Actually, it sounds petty, but I think in my case it was the design of the bridge and the fact that it had an Englemann top instead of Sitka. And.....I never felt right when I played it.

 

I got that guitar with a beautiful rigid foam case for a final blow-out price of $239.98!! Fantastic deal for an all solid wood guitar. I kept it for a year and a half and kept trying to love it, but it never happened. This, after quite a few of my friends told me I'd have to pay big bucks for a nice Martin to get anything nicer than that Alvarez. After 18 months, I sold it to a man who fell in love with it at first site. Actually sold it for almost twice what I paid for it. I got $450 out of it when they were already selling for about $500 on Ebay since they were no longer made.

 

I used the money to buy a used (but pristine) Martin DM that felt like it was "mine" from the first time I picked it up. I still have that one and intend to keep it until I die. And........it makes me feel "good" when I play it!

 

It's not that this DM sounds any better than the Alvarez..it's just that it feels more like a guitar that was meant for me. I'm a whole lot more comfortable when I'm playing it.

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A lot of guitars have passed through my hands, staying various lengths of time.....

 

I never actually set out to become a 12 string guy, but it just sorta happened. My D12-20 probably qualifies as an extension of me far more than any other. I know what she can and cannot do. She accepts my shortcomings as a player, and tries to cover up for me, when she can. We've been together a long long time and have a lot of shared memories, both good and bad. While it didn't happen overnight, I became quite comfortable performing with her in my hands. Yeh, it sounds a little weird to people I suppose, but that's the way it is, and I'm too old to worry about how the relationship came about. I enjoy playing other guitars, but I wouldn't dream of performing without her close at hand. Never gave her a name, but I know her gender, as only a female could affect me the way she does.

 

I even owned another D12-20, one with the sexy German machines, but it wasn't even a contest for my affection.

 

:cool:

 

Paul

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Old 1967 (I think) D28 top on cocobola back and sides and neck. Built by a close family friend especially for me. The top was off my grandfather's first Martin he ever bought. It's lovingly known as "The Rag" in music circles.

 

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And "Archie". My first guitar I ever worked on and fixed up. It came to me unfinished with the sides neck and back separating. My grandfather and I made a nut for it and did all the repairs needed. I play it sitting at home (it doesn't love the great outdoors.) Whenever he comes out someone always seems to do their best Edith Bunker impression "Oh Ahchy!!!"

 

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I never really bond with a guitar until it's had its first ding. At the first crack the guitar is truly mine. I guess I'm abusive or something but it's refreshing to not have to handle the guitar with kid gloves quite as much once the damage is done. It releases my inhibitions. :idk:

 

For instance, I have a Martin D-16GT that I bought with the idea that in a couple of years I'd upgrade to a higher end Martin. Well, a couple of years passed and I just wasn't bonding with the guitar and I decided to try my best to rectify the situation. So I took it out of its case, put on some fresh strings and tied the strap to the headstock one day while I was home alone with both my young sons. I was happily strumming and singing away yet still mobile enough that I could roam around the house and keep an eye on them. Well, my younger one starts asking for juice so I head to the refrigerator and sling the guitar over my back so that I could both hands to work the child lock. That's when the end pin slipped out...

 

KABONG!

 

The guitar swung free like an axe coming down and landed on the black plastic binding on the edge of the treble side of the lower bout. I was sick. Once the kiddies had their juice and were happily guzzling it down I inspected the damage. The top had three two inch long cracks in the finish and at least one that went all the way through. The top had also broken free of the kering beneath and the adjacent binding. A light rap of a knuckle in the area confirmed it and I wondered how much such a repair would cost but I elected to watch it to see if the cracks would lengthen.

 

Well, it's been a few months and things seem stable enough. Oddly enough now I feel free. Before it was a case queen but lately I've been playing it more and even used it in church as I'd intended to when I bought it. The tone that had grabbed me in the store is not inhibited in any way and there's not even a buzz. I had thought of selling it previously but now I feel like such damage would greatly affect its resale value anyway.

 

BTW, a similar thing happened to my Larrivee but I had already bonded with that guitar and the KABONG was less traumatic. In addition to the mark I left on it, my younger son went at the maple binding when he was teething.

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Old 1967 (I think) D28 top on cocobola back and sides and neck. Built by a close family friend especially for me. The top was off my grandfather's first Martin he ever bought. It's lovingly known as "The Rag" in music circles....

 

 

That dread and the bottle of booze are a bonding experience if I ever saw one!

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Old 1967 (I think) D28 top on cocobola back and sides and neck. Built by a close family friend especially for me. The top was off my grandfather's first Martin he ever bought. It's lovingly known as "The Rag" in music circles....

 

 

That dread and the bottle of booze are a bonding experience if I ever saw one!

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I've bonded nicely with my old D-28. I'm still waiting on the "more confident, and feel less performance anxiety" part.
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