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    So, the wife and I have decided to never have children.



    It's weird, I've always thought of it as one of those things I'll do it and some unspecified time in the future - you know, have a bit of fun now then get serious and have kids.



    With some introspection I've realised I don't want any kids. Turns out the wife feels the same way.



    We feel they take over your lives - time-wise, responsibility, financially. Kind of like it's been hanging over your head - you know, gotta get a good job so we can get a house for the kids when we have them,l have to get a family car etc. **************** that, I want a 2 seater and a home cinema



    We want to travel, to spend our money on ourselves - live for each other and not another person who is 100% dependent on us.



    We're 29 and 30, so not that young



    We will live the lives of homosexual couples - nice clothes, furniture, food, cars and holidays and when we're old we'll sell our house and live off the cash and not worry about having to leave an inheritance. Round the world cruise!
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    Quote Originally Posted by yourguitarhero
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    We're 29 and 30, so not that young




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    • #3
      Coming to this agreement with the wife has lifted a weight off my shoulders I never even knew I had.
      Have a listen and like my rock/stoner/thrash band Longhorn on Facebook

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      • #4
        She's knocked up within the next year. I call it now.
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          Quote Originally Posted by Ovid9
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          She's knocked up within the next year. I call it now.




          The kid will come out a different skin color than the OP. I call it now.
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          • #6






            Quote Originally Posted by Rampage
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            The kid will come out a different skin color than the OP. I call it now.




            I was thinking this...but I wasn't gonna say it.
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            • #7






              Quote Originally Posted by Ovid9
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              I was thinking this...but I wasn't gonna say it.




              I'm like your brain, only without tact.
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              • #8
                Wive's mind will change when a friend comes over to visit with that cute little toddler. I call it now.
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                • #9
                  I just had one...







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                  • #10
                    You better make sure she means it. If you plan to stay together with her, and she goes barren with even a hint of regret, she will grind your balls into paste.
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                    • #11






                      Quote Originally Posted by yourguitarhero
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                      So, the wife and I have decided to never have children.



                      It's weird, I've always thought of it as one of those things I'll do it and some unspecified time in the future - you know, have a bit of fun now then get serious and have kids.



                      With some introspection I've realised I don't want any kids. Turns out the wife feels the same way.



                      We feel they take over your lives - time-wise, responsibility, financially. Kind of like it's been hanging over your head - you know, gotta get a good job so we can get a house for the kids when we have them,l have to get a family car etc. **************** that, I want a 2 seater and a home cinema



                      We want to travel, to spend our money on ourselves - live for each other and not another person who is 100% dependent on us.



                      We're 29 and 30, so not that young



                      We will live the lives of homosexual couples - nice clothes, furniture, food, cars and holidays and when we're old we'll sell our house and live off the cash and not worry about having to leave an inheritance. Round the world cruise!




                      Youre not even old enough to come to this decision. You are old enough to be acting so immature, and selfish, though.



                      Piece of advice; stick to this decision!

                      The world has enough selfish people. No doubt your children would be just like you.



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                        Quote Originally Posted by schismed
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                        Youre not even old enough to come to this decision. You are old enough to be acting so immature, and selfish, though.



                        Piece of advice; stick to this decision!

                        The world has enough selfish people. No doubt your children would be just like you.







                        Deciding not to have children is selfish and immature?
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                        • #13






                          Quote Originally Posted by schismed
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                          Youre not even old enough to come to this decision. You are old enough to be acting so immature, and selfish, though.



                          Piece of advice; stick to this decision!

                          The world has enough selfish people. No doubt your children would be just like you.







                          While the reasoning in the initial post is somewhat selfish, at least they aren't going to have children and hold it against them whenever they realize they can't do everything they once did. Plenty of people jump into parenthood without thinking it through, and it reflects in the development of the children. These guys should live it up and see if they want to have kids whenever they settle down a bit more. A lot can change in only a few years and nothing is written in stone.



                          Or they could just flood the world with a bunch of bundles of joy and live by the whole "it takes a village" thing. That's the route that most people seem to follow, these days.
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                          • #14
                            I have 2 kids and have owned several different sports cars, that assumption is incorrect. They will, however, change your life in ways you can't imagine.
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                              Quote Originally Posted by BrendanO
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                              Deciding not to have children is selfish and immature?




                              I think he meant the specific motivation described by the OP, not deciding not to have children in general.
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