Members thesockmonster Posted March 23, 2012 Members Share Posted March 23, 2012 So, after a short 3 years of marriage (I'm only 25), my wife has fallen out of love with me, had abandoned all her friends, cheated and is in a semblance of a relationship with a patient (she's a chiropractic office manager), and wants nothing more than to be free. She wants nothing. I get everything but her. And before she pulled all this, I sold all my guitars and gear to free us from financial burdens. I have nothing left. So, there's no more music in my life. Please go easy. I'm not here for pity, I'm just asking for mojo and thoughts. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members benjamin801 Posted March 23, 2012 Members Share Posted March 23, 2012 Holy {censored}. It does get better... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Ron Burgandy Posted March 23, 2012 Members Share Posted March 23, 2012 bummer, dude. Buy a new guitar and hit the gym. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Dolf Posted March 23, 2012 Members Share Posted March 23, 2012 Bitches Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members rvschulz Posted March 23, 2012 Members Share Posted March 23, 2012 mojo sent dude. sounds like you need a better woman in your life. be patient, and get some {censored}ing guitars and amps NOW ! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members sleewell Posted March 23, 2012 Members Share Posted March 23, 2012 hey man i am 29, never been married but sure have been dumped quite a bit. sucks but it always is for the best, i am too chicken {censored} to end relationships when they should. you are very young; you have plenty of time to go out get plenty of hot strange, buy plenty of guitars and still find mrs. right. BITCHES AINT {censored} BUT HO'S AND TRICKS Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members thesockmonster Posted March 23, 2012 Author Members Share Posted March 23, 2012 bummer, dude. Buy a new guitar and hit the gym. All my money's gone. We moved to Durham for her, and I left a great job. I'm working a part-time contract, with an unsure future. Please post music. I need to hear something other than my thoughts. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Dr.Picklebottom Posted March 23, 2012 Members Share Posted March 23, 2012 thats terrible. youre still young, youve got plenty of time to meet the right person. i know thats meaningless righ now, but after awhile things will get better. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Ron Burgandy Posted March 23, 2012 Members Share Posted March 23, 2012 All my money's gone. We moved to Durham for her, and I left a great job. I'm working a part-time contract, with an unsure future.Please send me music. I need to hear something other than my thoughts. Man, I'm in for $20 to get ya something. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members tedmich Posted March 23, 2012 Members Share Posted March 23, 2012 do the things that make you happy and don't damage you, the clouds lift and there is a whole lot of good out there. Music dogs and fitness are a good path IME. what music do you like? Immortals or Don McLean? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Jesse G Posted March 23, 2012 Members Share Posted March 23, 2012 Man, that is so {censored}ed. It must have been really hard hearing all that, sorry man. Hopefully soon you can afford some new guitars for new beginnings Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members RSBro Posted March 23, 2012 Members Share Posted March 23, 2012 hey man i am 30, never been married. sucks but it always is for the best, i am too chicken {censored} to end relationships when they should so they go on and on and on and on and i'm miserable for 2-4 years.you are very young; you have plenty of time to go out get plenty of hot strange, buy plenty of guitars and still find mrs. right.BITCHES AINT {censored} BUT HO'S AND TRICKS all of dees. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members LA-Ü-RA Posted March 23, 2012 Members Share Posted March 23, 2012 Awful news. So sorry about this. Mojo and prayers coming your way! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members isvoid Posted March 23, 2012 Members Share Posted March 23, 2012 From every heart break and {censored}ty thing that happens in our lives we can decide to take from it what is beneficial, what can be learned from it, throw the rest of it in the bin and then soldier on to our next adventures. I can easily find how you're benefiting here but you have to do it for it to be meaningful, genuine and transition empowering. Until this happens -- which is a process that typically requires 25% of the time invested in another person until you get the hang of it -- my wishes for healing and swift transition go out to you. PS: Spend lots of time outdoors; moving. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members KCTigerChief Posted March 23, 2012 Members Share Posted March 23, 2012 Man, I'm in for $20 to get ya something. I will match Dave's $20. Give us a paypall account. Gotta get you some gear homeboy Keep your head up man. It may seem tough now, but things can only improve from here. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members DoubleBarrel Posted March 23, 2012 Members Share Posted March 23, 2012 and wants nothing more than to be free. She wants nothing. I get everything but her. Get that {censored} in writing Mojo sent. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members sleewell Posted March 23, 2012 Members Share Posted March 23, 2012 this for the OP and RSBro: its about tossing someone's {censored} out when they cheat on you [video=youtube;1M7pCS6Jpho] this is just {censored}ing awesome: [video=youtube;P_LgWanltT0] so is this: [video=youtube;Fm71Khu5-Lk] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members isvoid Posted March 23, 2012 Members Share Posted March 23, 2012 I have a {censored}ty squier telecaster I don't use. Send me your shipping address details (isvoid at gmail dot com) and it's yours to fix/abuse as you see fit, tho it won't be shipped immediately because I have to find suitable packing and {censored} (has no case) and I'm a lazy {censored}. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members DoubleBarrel Posted March 23, 2012 Members Share Posted March 23, 2012 They say "when one door closes, another one opens"............what they don't tell you is how hard it hits you on the ass when it slams closed & how hard it is to open the new one. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members guitarbilly74 Posted March 23, 2012 Members Share Posted March 23, 2012 So, after a short 3 years of marriage (I'm only 25), my wife has fallen out of love with me, had abandoned all her friends, cheated and is in a semblance of a relationship with a patient (she's a chiropractic office manager), and wants nothing more than to be free. She wants nothing. I get everything but her. And before she pulled all this, I sold all my guitars and gear to free us from financial burdens. I have nothing left. So, there's no more music in my life. Please go easy. I'm not here for pity, I'm just asking for mojo and thoughts. So you sold your guitars to pay off your debt, and now you're 25 y.o., debt-free and just got rid of a cheater spouse before you had kids or common property? {censored} just got better, man. It may not look like it right now, but I talk to you in a few years. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Sandy Cheeks Posted March 23, 2012 Members Share Posted March 23, 2012 Count yourself lucky to find all this out when you're still young. And what where you doing getting married at 22? Anyone who gets married is crazy, doubly so if it's before 30. If I knew before what I know now, I would run like hell at the mention of marriage. It is the death of hope. And guitars? I'd say you're ready to go shopping. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members KCTigerChief Posted March 23, 2012 Members Share Posted March 23, 2012 I have a {censored}ty squier telecaster. Send me your shipping address details (isvoid at gmail do com) and it's yours to fix/abuse as you see fit, tho it won't be shipped immediately because I have to find suitable packing and {censored} (has no case) and I'm a lazy {censored}. I will buy a microcube just so you have an amp to go with this guitar. I can do that this weekend and get it shipped to you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Ron Burgandy Posted March 23, 2012 Members Share Posted March 23, 2012 I have a {censored}ty squier telecaster I don't use. Send me your shipping address details (isvoid at gmail dot com) and it's yours to fix/abuse as you see fit, tho it won't be shipped immediately because I have to find suitable packing and {censored} (has no case) and I'm a lazy {censored}. will paypal izzy $20 for shipping costs Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members pioneerprogress Posted March 23, 2012 Members Share Posted March 23, 2012 I have a {censored}ty squier telecaster I don't use. Send me your shipping address details (isvoid at gmail dot com) and it's yours to fix/abuse as you see fit, tho it won't be shipped immediately because I have to find suitable packing and {censored} (has no case) and I'm a lazy {censored}. awesome. The rest of us still need a paypal addy for teh map though. edit: dang, that's covered too, it looks like. OK, well which one of y'all is my money going to then? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members guitarbilly74 Posted March 23, 2012 Members Share Posted March 23, 2012 will paypal izzy $20 for shipping costs will help with $20 too. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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