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  • OT: I'm out of the game, need help... dating delema!!!!

    So here's my situation... a few years ago I dated someone that I met online. How weird is that?!?!?! anyway, I had just gotten out of a long term relationship and we met and it was all good. we started dating and this woman totally fell for me. I was so cocky though that I didn't care and thought that it was "too easy" so I bailed on her.

    I hadn't really talked to her much, but then a few months ago, I found her number in my old room at my parents house. It got me thinking about things and how I was so stupid for how I treated her. I started thinking how amazing it would be to have someone who cared for me that much at this point in my live. Long story short, I called her... it turns out she was living with some guy now in San Diego. RATS!!! But she also told me that the relationship was going to the crapper and she was looking to move out soon.

    About a month later, she called me and SURPRISE!!!! She just moved back to the East Coast. She told me that she is moving back to CA in a few years when she saves up enough cash, but she would love to get together with me. She's been back for a few months now and is coming to visit me this weekend(she's driving down 4 hours to see me!!!!). I never get nervous going out with someone or even for a gig, but this has me so freaked out!!! Seriously, she's smart, friendly, makes more money than me and she looks just like Joss Stone!!!!

    Anyway, what are some good dates that we could do besides go to a bar.... man, I'm so out of the game...

    I really do think that if she is anything like she was 5 years ago, this could turn into something great!!!

    For those of you who think that all threads in this forum should only be about guitars... feast your eyes on this beast!!!!
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  • #2
    Say its her choice and you'll pay.. that way she gets what she wants and will be happy with it..
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    • #3
      Go see "Hitch" BEFORE you meet with her. The movie's chock full of good advice when taken with a grain of salt.

      BTW, LOVE the guitar!! Almost forgot the subject of the thread after seein' that baby!
      Originally Posted by hammergjh


      I will appoint you my official "get me some ********************" gopher.

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      • #4
        Originally posted by costalot

        BTW, LOVE the guitar!! Almost forgot the subject of the thread after seein' that baby!


        yeah man!!! it is a nice guitar!!!
        Check out my website and download my cd, Carousel @:
        www.johnmendozamusic.com
        www.myspace.com/johnmendozamusic

        My Gear:
        PRS Custom 22 PURPLE
        PRS Custom 22 Vintage Yellow
        Peavey Wolfgang
        EB MM Morse y2k in PURPLE!!!!!
        Gibson LP Standard
        Ibanez Jem 7EAFX
        Fender Lonestar Strat
        Taylor 314CE
        EVH 5150 III MINI

        XT Brotherhood

        Buy my first CD
        http://cdbaby.com/cd/johnmendoza

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        • #5
          yah, do the dinner/movie (or show, or play, or whatever) thing.

          that guitar is pretty bitchin. No so much a fan of the gold hardware though.
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          • #6
            Pick her up and get a bunch of booze and take her to a motel and dink her all night long...When you wake up in the morning you'll know what to do....
            While we're at it,let me say that you could fill two busses with the girls that I hit between 1982-1990...


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            • #7
              dinner, etc is good; but movies/plays are not actually very good first date (or 'catching up with each' dates, if that's what this is) activities since you have to sit there in silence and can't actually talk to each other.

              just IME

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              • #8
                That guitar is as ugly as matching seersucker pant suits.
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                • #9
                  Originally posted by yabba
                  dinner, etc is good; but movies/plays are not actually very good first date (or 'catching up with each' dates, if that's what this is) activities since you have to sit there in silence and can't actually talk to each other.

                  just IME


                  +1

                  Yup, movies are lousy, yet popular (because they're easy) first dates. What you really want to do is talk to this girl. Dinner is a good idea, preferebly somewhere that has a good place to go walk around afterwards nearby. San Diego has an area called Seaport Village right on the harbor with shops etc... right next to all the boats, very cool!

                  Bar scene is not good either, probably too loud... you want to converse, not yell at each other!
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                  • #10
                    Wow, nice Jackson!

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                    • #11
                      Go to a nice coffee shop that maybe has an acoustic duo or solo act. If you're increibly brave, ask her to dance.

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                      • #12
                        Originally posted by EuphoricGreyGuitar
                        Go to a nice coffee shop that maybe has an acoustic duo or solo act. If you're increibly brave, ask her to dance.


                        good call!! thanks...
                        Check out my website and download my cd, Carousel @:
                        www.johnmendozamusic.com
                        www.myspace.com/johnmendozamusic

                        My Gear:
                        PRS Custom 22 PURPLE
                        PRS Custom 22 Vintage Yellow
                        Peavey Wolfgang
                        EB MM Morse y2k in PURPLE!!!!!
                        Gibson LP Standard
                        Ibanez Jem 7EAFX
                        Fender Lonestar Strat
                        Taylor 314CE
                        EVH 5150 III MINI

                        XT Brotherhood

                        Buy my first CD
                        http://cdbaby.com/cd/johnmendoza

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                        • #13
                          smells of "Family Man."

                          What if...
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                          • #14
                            Take her amp shopping.
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                            • #15
                              You, dude.
                              The Walrus was James Taylor.

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