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  • Is being "good in bed" more of a physical or mental thing?

    Seriously.

    My friend and I got in an argument today about whether or not you must posess some kind of "physical talent" to be good in bed.

    My argument is that "every girl has a mouth, so why are some better kissers than others?"

    Her counter was "every guy has hands and feet, so why aren't they all good at sports?"

    I think it's more of a mental thing myself.

    You?

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  • #2
    Def. mental - but you gotta be physical enough to pull it off...
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    • #3
      You have to know what you're doing and be able to do it.

      this question isn't really rocket science...
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      • #4
        physical

        some chicks lie and say they want to be cuddled and made love to softly...
        they are just being nice and trying not to hurt your feelings with your little penis

        every chick wants to be pounded like a jackhammer by a man that is equipped to do some damage

        fact... don't take it personal
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        • #5
          Originally posted by Bucky Goldstein
          physical

          some chicks lie and say they want to be cuddled and made love to softly...
          they are just being nice and trying not to hurt your feelings with your little penis

          every chick wants to be pounded like a jackhammer by a man that is equipped to do some damage

          fact... don't take it personal



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          • #6
            It's a bit of both I would say.
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            • #7
              Both! You could Wisper all the Sweeet BS you want ,but if you dont know what your doing your not gona get that girl too sing.
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              • #8
                Originally posted by keka
                Both! You could Wisper all the Sweeet BS you want ,but if you dont know what your doing your not gona get that girl too sing.


                yeah, but is "knowing what you're doing" related to straight physical prowess?

                I'd say a big part of it is being mentally ready to do whatever is necessary.

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                • #9
                  Hopefully it's mental...because physically I'm nothing to call home about.

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                  • #10
                    i say both. you have to be attracted to someone, and also, put forth the effort.

                    it's a lot more than insert a into b. as touching the right spots and saying the right things help out a lot.

                    but really..who cares? as long as you get off... game over.



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                    • #11
                      Mental!

                      Perception is everything, and the brain is the most erogenous zone of the body. It's where fetishes are born.

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                      • #12
                        Bollocks,

                        bend her over, stick it in, in out, shoot on her back, wipe your cock on the curtains on the way out.

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                        • #13
                          We got a bunch of real casanovas in this thread.




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                          • #14
                            Originally posted by ranalli
                            We got a bunch of real casanovas in this thread.




                            HC....where teenagers know everything!!!


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                            • #15
                              Get laid man, what are you waiting for? GOTTA GET LAAAAAAAAAIIIID MAN, look at that ass

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