Members jeff42 Posted June 8, 2013 Members Share Posted June 8, 2013 last night played a so-so gig about an hour from home. Met some nice people and I asked them if they minded if I took their picture for the band site. They said I could take the pic and they posed for a picture. I posted them last night and one of the bartenders posted a short 1 min video of the small crowd enjoying the band. Well this morning i got an irate message from one of the women demanding I take down the pic and video.She said stuff about public perception of her and all that nonsense bla bla bla...(she works for UPS, so I don't understand it's not like she's a state representative or something ( BTW an area state rep. doesn't mind being photographed with my band... Just in case you were wondering)well I don't argue anymore I just do it, so I took it down but told her the band has no control over the video. We did not take it.She did not like that response. She wants the video gone. I told her nicely I will see what I can do or she can contact the bar. Sometimes I don't understand what is wrong with people. If you don't want your pic taken just say "no" Its OK I don't get pushy I just move on... and If you pop up online accidentally just tell me and I'll take it down or crop it. But don't pose for a pic and then tell me to take it down. /rant Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Sick boy78 Posted June 8, 2013 Members Share Posted June 8, 2013 She just didn't like how she looked in the picture. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members SpaceNorman Posted June 8, 2013 Members Share Posted June 8, 2013 Naw ... she's worried her fiance or her husband will see it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members jeff42 Posted June 8, 2013 Author Members Share Posted June 8, 2013 SpaceNorman wrote: Naw ... she's worried her fiance or her husband will see it. good possiblity cuz she was there with her "Girlfriend." and she wasn't hiding how much she liked her! Strange thing just happened to me about 5 minutes ago. Got a message from a guy demanding I take down a pic that has been online for about 5 years of him and his x-girlfriend that is on my other band's page. WTF? people. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Sick boy78 Posted June 8, 2013 Members Share Posted June 8, 2013 Wtf!?! I'd leave them both up. Dicks! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members jeff42 Posted June 8, 2013 Author Members Share Posted June 8, 2013 The guy that just messaged me said: "Hey, there's something about this photo that bothers me. Would you please take it down? Thanks"It was a pic of him and his X hugging and smiling at the camera.I wrote back joking- What is it dave? you're shirt? (he was wearing a shirt with a very vulgar saying)LOLa very popular band had something like this posted on their website once: "if you don't want your picture on our website don't pose for a picture. We won't take them down" over the years i have had a few of these self important idiots who think people care about a pic of them in a bar/restaurant smiling to the camera. I used to say get over yourself but meh.. it aint worth arguing with the self absorbed anymore. but 2 in one day has me puzzled. totally unrelated requests.. heh. ... and another thing. i think good pics of people having FUN is great marketing for bar owners that are checking out your site. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members stangconv Posted June 8, 2013 Members Share Posted June 8, 2013 That "there's something that bothers me about this picture" is facebooks canned message when someone reports a picture. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members StratGuy22 Posted June 8, 2013 Members Share Posted June 8, 2013 Take it down. For a fee. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members jeff42 Posted June 9, 2013 Author Members Share Posted June 9, 2013 stangconv wrote: That "there's something that bothers me about this picture" is facebooks canned message when someone reports a picture. now that I know this it really PISSES me off. I should put it back up. and as far as public perception of me- I think playing in a band means you are showing your face in public and for me actually helps in one part of my day job. I wear many hats in my day job (working in TV) and one of those hats is on-air talent for a travel show. I never once worry about perception when I am drumming and drinking and getting pics taken of me. It helps the show. Many people have recognized me from TV and that helps the band and the tv show I host/produce/edit. Its not how everyone feels... just me. the reality is privacy is pretty much gone. Everyone has a camera and everyone is posting pics everywhere. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members StratGuy22 Posted June 9, 2013 Members Share Posted June 9, 2013 Just put a black box over the offending persons face. Haha Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members StratGuy22 Posted June 9, 2013 Members Share Posted June 9, 2013 Or in the case of the dude and the ex, over the dudes face. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members FitchFY Posted June 10, 2013 Members Share Posted June 10, 2013 I've gotten this once or twice, and it always befuddles me that people are so... stupid. Just.. so much is wrong about that. Everything said in this thread is accurate. That being said, just remove them. It's less of a headache. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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